Nothing will ruin a relationship for me faster than watching your partner showing up for other people in a way they don't show up for you. You have the capacity, just not for our relationship? no thanks.
Goes for friendship too!
ngl my next relationship we're having a monthly sit down. just sit and discuss us..how things are going, what we can do to develop our relationship more. you'll be surprised at what just a lil communication can do for any relationship
i watched a man beg me to trust him, beg me to let my guard down, beg me to believe he was different, just for him to turn around and do the exact same shĩt. he held me every night, looked me dead in my eyes, told me he loved me, and still lied without blinking. that kind of betrayal rewires your heart. it makes you question love, trust, and even yourself. but one thing it taught me? never ignore your intuition. ever.
High functioning depression is so scary because no one knows that you're not ok. And even if you say something, people don't care because you don't present as someone who's falling off the deep end.
I CANNOT FUCK w/ people who, when they're mad they say extremely hurtful things but when they calm down they want to backtrack and say they didn't mean it. YES, you did. Stand on it.