Today, a Mie came to me and quietly said, Bella, I'm overthinking a lot, and I'm really hurt." Can I ask something of all of us?
Can't we just allow Starmies to fangirl Junior and Mark in the way that feels natural to them as long as it's done with love, respect, and good intentions?
Please don't make your fellow fangirls overthink. Please don't make them feel unloved, unwanted, disliked, unwelcome, or excluded. Many of them are younger than you. Please look after them the way you would your own younger brothers and sisters.
Our words carry more weight than we sometimes realize. A single careless comment can stay with someone long after we've forgotten we even said it. It can make them question whether they belong here at all. Please don't let that be the reason someone slowly walks away from Junior and Mark, or from this fandom, feeling like there was never a place for them. This fandom should be a place where people find comfort, friendship, laughter, and happiness and not a place where they're afraid to speak, post, or simply love the people who brought us all together.
So before you reply, before you comment, before you joke, please choose your words with care. Choose gentleness. Choose empathy. Choose kindness.
Let's take care of one another just as much as we take care of Junior and Mark.
At the end of the day, we're all Starmies, shining beneath the same sun and moon. #JuniorMark
⭐️I want Mark to do whatever it takes to make me smile. If u can't u'll have to wear a bow
🌙*tries & fails*
⭐️I don't smile easily
🌙*does cheek heart on Ju*
⭐️*smiles*
🌙Wow~ guess I won't have to wear a bow after all~
⭐️Can u wear a bow as a bonus?
🌙*does it quickly*
cute 🥹
I stepped back from the timeline for a little while because watching all of the chaos was honestly heartbreaking for me.
Now that things have started to calm down, I just want to take a moment to publicly show my support for @jiumi0403
She's genuinely one of the kindest, sweetest Mies I've had the privilege of knowing. Throughout everything, she has always supported Junior and Mark with nothing but love, kindness, respect, and the very best intentions. But not only them, but she shared that support and love with me as well. We should be thanking her for loving Junior and Mark now attacking her or asking her for proof of her good intentions.
Please don't let the actions of one person become the reason another person is judged or hurt. It's never fair to direct frustration toward someone who has done nothing wrong.
If someone has consistently shown up with a good heart, treated others with respect, and only ever wanted to support Ju and Mark, then that's how they deserve to be remembered and treated.
Let's be careful not to let anger overshadow kindness. Our fandom should be a place where good people feel safe, appreciated, and welcome. Not afraid to simply love and support the artists who brought us all together.
Sending you lots of love today, @jiumi0403, because I know your goodness personally. Please remember that there are many of us who see your heart, appreciate your kindness, and are grateful that you're part of this family. Please love Junior and Mark for a long time! #JuniorMark
You always say such touching words that bring tears to my eyes😭Thank you for supporting me, encouraging me and standing behind me all along. Let’s keep loving and supporting JuniorMark together forever💛💙