@Gelinecare@NwaAdaIgbo1 Strongly disagree
Azu a ga agbari ma o dee, o ga eme ka ofe onugbu di kwuo thick, unless I ji ofo/achi and not ede.
Ofe akwu, maka o ga enye aka thickinie consistency
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I’m always the girl who’s good enough for a situationship but never seems to be enough for a real relationship. And it hurts in a way I don’t always know how to explain, because it makes you question yourself. You start wondering what it is about you that makes people want your attention, your affection, your time and your body, but somehow hesitate when it comes to actually choosing you. You become the girl they want around when it’s convenient, the girl they miss when they’re lonely and the girl they keep coming back to without ever making a real commitment. After a while, you start wondering if there’s something about you that makes people see you as temporary. You watch other people get the love, the effort and the commitment you’ve been hoping for, and you can’t help but wonder why it always seems so difficult for someone to choose you in the same way. But deep down, I know my worth shouldn’t be measured by how willing someone is to commit to me. I know that being wanted in private but not chosen in public doesn’t mean I’m lacking something. Still, knowing that doesn’t always stop it from hurting. I’m tired of being someone’s almost, someone’s maybe and someone’s temporary comfort. I want to be loved with intention, chosen without hesitation and wanted by someone who isn’t afraid to make me their person.
We honestly DO NOT talk enough about how God will give you a completely ordinary day. No emergencies, no devastating phone calls, no chaos. Just peace.
That alone is a blessing.
Don’t get carried away.
There is nothing happening to another woman that cannot happen to you.
We live in a crazy society. I’m telling you, it’s crazy.
This is not even a tribal thing; it is a Nigerian culture that hates widows and their children.
Wigwe died 🫱🏾🫲🏿 his family disgraced themselves.
Ekubo died 🫱🏾🫲🏿 his family disgraced themselves.
Mohbad died 🫱🏾🫲🏿 his family disgraced themselves.
Men’s families are entitled. They care more about converting their late brother’s properties and frustrating his wife and kids than actually mourning the person they lost.
exini unutamama olayi asiri abarti gibi geliyo cok seversin cok caba gostermis olabilirsin ama ayrildiktan sonra en fazla 1 2 ay icinde asabilirsin bunu ya bitip gitmis bir iliski icin uzulmek show ya da ben cok duygusuzum bilemiyorum
A man will always be a man!
What men are capable of.. women cannot do it..there are distinctive roles for us all !
Ps: this is my take, you can say what you think too...no hard feelings.