like the tea is that trans people actually show us the diversity of biology and the possibilities but boring cishets really want to make biology about limits
if someone said "i love you in every universe" to me it would be an instant ick, but why did "in another life, i would have really liked just doing laundry and taxes with you" make me burst into tears
Yes all experiences are valid and also yes it still sucks to be oppressed. There’s also more to queerness than struggle and strife - how are you bi in joy?
Hey, who is noticing that “post-pandemic normal” is a lot of “I’ve been knocked out by this cold for weeks” and “Sorry, we’ve had to cancel this event!” and “My kids are sick for the second time in two months!” and “Due to staffing shortages…” and “The ER wait was 10 hours!”