I’m learning that I’m not a “Let’s just see where things go” type of dater. I’m more of a “This is where I’d like to go. Do you see yourself aligning with that?” type of dater.
I just realized there's really no running away from missing someone. You can distract yourself for a day, pretend you're fine, and convince yourself you don't care, but somehow your heart still finds a way to bring them back.
Being able to “Uncook” is even a greater skill 🤣🤣🤣.
When I review files on a call and I ask people to do some calculations or expand on some cells and formulas, they often don’t know where I am headed. Until, we end up in the hmm, okay, you’re correct stages 🤣🤣🤣
I hate the fact that I understand people, or I try to understand why people act the way they act towards me and I don’t get really angry at their actions or behavior towards me.
I can’t let my anger go on for long, after an hour or so I start to re-evaluate my response
Sometimes in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative & traumatic loop. Heal from what broke you, live in your own space. Reconnect with your discipline and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through
the official break up. like the break up gangan. you go first think say e no go move you say you fit don dey mentally prepared. give am like one week, e go be like say make you run back. you go wan craze. 😭😭😭😭
you will cry eh. everything go just dey vex you.
its so funny how i have compartmentalized friendships. like i have my marketing/work besties and our friendship is built around work, attending work/tech events, sharing work opportunities, gossiping about work etc.