Just casually became the first lawyer in my family🤭
First Lawyer
First Daughter
First to create the Legacy
RE-INTRODUCING I.D OKA ESQ.
BARRISTER AND SOLICITOR OF THE SUPREME COURT OF NIGERIA.
I'm honestly too lazy for certain things.
For instance, I cannot cook food from my house and then go and give a man. I also cannot go to somebody's house, wear their shirt and start washing their weeklong pile of dirty clothes.
It just cannot be me, I am lazy.😭
As someone who cries when arguing, I find this very upsetting.
Nobody is trying to manipulate you and nobody wants to be arguing and crying.
It’s how their system is wired and there’s nothing they can do about it.
Saying they’re manipulating you is so lazy. Smh
Especially the ones that will start calling pos when you say you want to do transfer and will want you to pay #100 on top what kind of business person are you if you can’t take transfer,the one that pisses me off the most is when they’d say but it’s just #100 na
I knew graduating with a first class in my department would be tough because we hadn’t had a first-class graduate in years. so I just took my mind off it. That school did me dirty sha.
I don’t know how you all handle your relationships, but I think it’s unnecessary to keep telling the world you can’t cook as a wife and that all you offer your husband is spaghetti and noodles. He may not mind now, but constantly using it to prove he loves you could eventually turn into ridicule.
Enjoy your marriage quietly, stop setting the man up for drags, and go learn to cook. You’re building a family, not putting on an influencer show.
The one sentence I grew up hearing and my unborn children won't be hearing is..
"Is this how you will be doing or behaving in your husband's house"
I'm not training my kids for any man!!!
Not everything is about marriage!!!
I will shamelessly simp for the person I love.
If they serve me breakfast, I will move on.
If I meet someone else I love, I will simp for them again. 😂
@omwanba_@Miss_Teddy0 Na them,why will she remain single because she dosent want to settle for less,I grew up seeing my dad assist my mum,so why cant my assist with a little or better still make it easier by getting a washing machine…mtcheew
Husband is relaxing in the house, wife
is washing a bale of clothes outside under the sun. After this, she'll go and cook. They do this every Saturday and they both go to work from Monday to Friday. You see this kind of marriage? I reject it for all my female friends.
YOU deserve a calm love with someone who gives you best friend energy, makes you laugh, and never stops flirting with you. Someone who learns your love language just to treat you right and make you feel loved properly. Someone who is interested in seeing you glow from being loved properly.