watching this without any cuts is insane the level of eye acting and micro expressions from antony starr is crazy 😭 watch him and try not to call it the performance of a lifetime
salah satu alasan kenapa menurut gue dosa suharto sangat immeasurable. karena dia mengeliminasi satu generasi intelek di indonesia yg bikin sdm kita punya gap dan smp sekarang affecting how we develop. demi Allah jahat banget.
Not really, wanita lebih suka pria yang membuat dirinya merasa aman.
Aman secara intelektual, emosional, spiritual, finansial & sexual. Garansi 111%
Namun rasa aman itu memiliki musuh terbesar yaitu ego dirinya sendiri, ambiguitas pikirannya sendiri, nafsunya sendiri.
Prinsip gue sederhana: Kalau pasangan gue sama gue, dia harus makin percaya diri, makin nyaman, dan makin terlihat cerah.
Kalau dia sering minder, capek, atau ngerasa terbebani setelah bareng gue, berarti gue belum berhasil jadi laki-laki yang dia butuhin.
Jadi cowok "mapan" itu bukan cuma soal dompet tebal. Kehadiran gue harus bikin hidupnya lebih ringan. Cantik itu bisa pake make-up, bahagia itu butuh ketenangan. Gue pengen jadi alasan dia senyum lebih sering, bukan tambah pusing.
Cowok berkualitas nggak ngelawan pasangannya, kita justru bikin mereka naik level.
Curiosity is stronger than love.
A reporter asked him, “How so?”
“I’m 94 years old, and I got married at 23.
But at 46, my wife left me.
She told me that she had become invisible now…
that I was working too much and I wasn’t paying enough attention to her anymore.
I told her that it wasn’t possible, that I loved her more than everything, and it was true but…
that’s when she asked me:
do you know when was the last time you came to see me play bridge?
I didn’t know how to answer, and she said…
‘It’s normal. You never came.’
And she left.
So I made a decision…
In the months that followed, I signed up for bridge lessons and…
I learned how to play, I practiced, I researched, and one day…
I saw there was going to be a tournament near our home. So I signed up and…
She was in the other team. I was seeing her for the first time in nearly a year…
Of course, she beat me.
But I saw a feeling in her eyes that I hadn’t seen for a long time.
Gratitude.
So at the end, I went to see her and I told her…
‘If you agree to give me a second chance, I’ll never miss any of your competitions again.’
I kept my word.
She passed away 8 years ago but…
She taught me the most precious of the lessons:
“Love isn’t enough, you have to know how to show it.”
relationship yg monoton, flat, ga selalu ada sparks, tapi sayang banget satu sama lain tuh pertanda kalo kamu lagi ada di relationship yg sehat. ga banyak drama, ngerti kesibukan, ga ributin hal sepele, tenang dan secure.
#tadabbur
Fun fact... bahwa perempuan jaman dlu banyak dinikah karena rasa malunya.
Sebagaimana anak perempuan Nabi Syuaib as. yang dinikahkan dgn Nabi Musa as.
Awal pertemuan keduanya adalah karena putri Nabi Syuaib mau memberitahu Nabi Musa bhw ia dipanggil oleh ayahnya. Uniknya, anak perempuan Nabi Syuaib itu jalan mendekati Nabi Musa dengan penuh rasa malu.
Maka betul ungkapan dalam bahasa Arab bahwa malu itu pasti mendatangkan kebaikan.
Yuk... adek² dan kakak², mari kita budayakan rasa malu lagi.