When they spill the milk, hand them the cloth before you reach for one.
Kids learn cleanup by doing the first wipe, not by watching you finish it.
It takes longer the first week. By the second, they've stopped asking who's getting it.
Kids tune out the parent who announces every step of the routine.
Pick one cue that isn't your voice: a song that starts when it's time for shoes, a lamp that comes on at bedtime.
After a week, the cue does the reminding and you get to just say goodnight.
@parent_grade Speedy with you there and frozen alone is the one that fools most parents. It looks like a choice when it's really about who's holding the plan.
@FoundationDads Kids are the toughest audience for this because they see the whole day, not just the advice. Telling them to put the phone down while holding one never lands.
@LetGrowOrg "The air we breathe" is a good sign it stuck. Once kids expect to try first before asking, the teacher stops being the only one solving every problem in the room.
@DrCamiloOrtiz@aspenideas The hard part in that is the parent stepping back, not the kid doing the brave thing. Watching them fumble something small without jumping in takes practice too.
@proctorzt@zilipef101@DevMuzzammil@thekitze A debloated TV showing her chores when she walks in from school is a great use for it. Does she check it on her own or still need a nudge?