Panashe ❤️‍🔥

How would your work look if you loved yourself? · embodied engineer

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@alexeyguzey Why would acting on your fear per se be a bad thing? If you're walking in the savannah, see a lion and are scared, you better act on it!

[rachel (is sending love and warmth your way) @rachelclif]

in practice, courage is not defined by the absence of fear but the decision to act lovingly in spite of it— and, in doing so, expand your capacity to love

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@__drewface @Prigoose Back @ work today. I'll reach out to the recruiting folks and tell y'all what they have to say

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@thrialectics @TylerAlterman The general apocalyptic vibe, I've never seriously read it.

That and once dating a woman who had frequent nightmares about damnation. That might have been much more about her anabaptist church doctrine than anything directly in the text.

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@crumbraven @callanable More like it froze, and because water expands when it freezes, it made the can explode. The CO2 also can't stay in the water as it freezes, creating more outward pressure.

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@_samand_ We've watched Charlotte's Web (2006) and my 2.5 year old gets giddy when the nasty rat character appears 🐀

[Stephen Zerfas @stephen_zerfas]

Delays in feeling emotions might be the mechanism by which addictive behaviors like procrastination persist.

Donna Meadows has this great section in her book Thinking in Systems about how delays in information flows can shift a system from stable equilibrium to oscillation. Like going from scalding to freezing several times in the shower when there’s a delay, vs getting it just right quickly when there isn’t.

When I procrastinate, I’m doing something to avoid some feeling like fear of failure until I’m forced to face it. But that pattern makes it more likely I fail, or scrape by the skin of my teeth, both of which might make it more likely I procrastinate again the future. Like over-correcting the water temp in the shower.

If I just felt and learned from the fear of failure right away, I might right-size the amount of time I want to spend on the task and move on — better yet, I might even enjoy it.

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@callanable Sad to be missing this edition of Calloween!

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@__drewface (I'm not a founder, I'm a senior SWE at DDOG)

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@__drewface Timing is off, but we have a summer internship program and I'd love to have someone from fractal on my team

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@BreatheLesss Coordinating a group of people to gather and work together with shared purpose and conviction

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@ifonlyalabama You're making the (big, IMO) assumption that it'll work well

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@r00k @babieswithb @r00k Random, I remember you from some courses you made at thoughtbot (upcase?) like a decade ago

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@michelleakin That's quite the compliment

[michelle (on break) @michelleakin]

@visakanv yep. love you ☺️

[shadow work guide @anokariver]

Mood

[Bevin Campbell @DrBevinCampbell]

Whatever type of therapy you are drawn to as a pt. probably reinforces in its structure the ways you already cope with and defend against uncomfortable feelings and aspects of self; however much it helps you it probably won’t help as much as the modality you think is dumb.

[Panashe ❤️‍🔥 @panafunds]

@michelleakin @shelbyruthellis You may have just changed my life forever