I’m happy another useless House of Representatives member representing the people of offa.oyun Ifelodun federal constituency failed the screening process, Tijani is the most useless HOR member in kwara state
“Have you ever paid school fees before” is a question you must never allow anybody to ask you as a Man. It’s the highest level of irresponsibility. You will always have your fault as a Human being but taking care of your Children to the best of your ability must never be negotiable even if it’s your last kobo.
Nothing wey woman deserve for marriage pass 3 square meal and roof over her head,
Na una Dey do pass una self , my pady say e Dey carry tv remote go work.
You’re laughing at the guy who got cheated on? Calm down, pay attention, your own woman might be doing worse 😂😂. Marriage isn’t what it used to be, and the influence of Western culture has seriously damaged the institution of marriage. Only a few are truly safe from this mess.
I want to put this out here because some single persons who are about to make the ultimate decision of marriage might need it:
There’s a big difference between being financially comfortable as a single person and being comfortable when you’re married.
As a single person, it’s easy to feel like you’ve figured things out because your expenses are controlled and predictable. But the moment you get married, your baseline for everything changes. What you see as financial comfort now would require much more management to be enough. Because you have to feed, shelter and cater for 2 adults.
If you really want to understand or get ahead of it, take your current recurring expenses and multiply it by 4. That’s the kind of financial capacity it takes to maintain the same level of comfort you currently enjoy as a single person.
There is more. Being married without children is one thing. When you introduce children into the equation, the demands increases. At that point, multiply your single person expenses by eight for two kids. That’s when the real weight of responsibility starts to show.
Those ‘luxuries’ and cravings you will still be able to afford them, but you would not buy them. Because bills will come at you thick and fast, never ending. Eventually, you recondition to anticipate unforeseen expenses and become more conservative with personal spending.
My point is: Prepare. Have a trajectory and make sure you marry a partner who would work to support your home. That way, your income increases proportionally with your expenses.
Many single people think they’ve cracked the code on financial comfort and they jump into marriage without well detailed plans. They forget to factor that as single people, they’re operating in a controlled environment with limited variables. You can only understand it when you step into that phase of life.
Ademola Adeleke will be re elected as Governor of Osun.
Obafemi Hamzat will be elected as Governor of Lagos
Olamilekan Adeola (Yayi) will be elected as Governor of Ogun
Biodun Oyebanji will be re elected as Governor of Ekiti
Seyi Makinde’s candidate will be elected as Governor of Oyo
Facts are stubborn
Inside your 7 years relationship
Short time dey there
One night stand dey there
Another 1 - 2 years relationship dey there
Friends with benefit don chop run comot
Ex dey there
E go shock you 🤣😂