According to psychology the biggest sign of childhood trauma is trying to convince people who are hurting you to treat you better rather than you walking away.
I did a soup kitchen and thought it was really weird how a hundred people were relying on me having a free weekend to get a warm meal while there were dudes with mega yachts
Erotic intelligence includes knowing how to sustain your own appetite for life. Curiosity, imagination, play, beauty, novelty, intimacy, etc. A woman should have many things that make her feel alive.
Every city I go to,,,, beautiful young women r dancing salsa with uncles and weirdos bc they want to spin…… young men and their egos r holding them back in very strange ways
Do you wanna come to dinner with my parents and observe the unsaid lifelong dynamics that control every aspect of my life and unlock a new level of intimacy in our friendship or no
You don’t solve poverty by teaching everyone to become millionaires. You solve poverty by building an economy where ordinary work can produce a decent life.
The “mass shooting” in Erie, PA was in fact a family annihilation event. A 45-year-old man with a registered firearm killed a 22-mo-old girl, a 5-year-old boy, 2 women, & 5 men.
He killed himself.
We still don’t know his name or the names of his victims. No one will ask ‘where was he radicalized?’ Media will move on. A reminder that every 5 days a man annihilates his family in the USA & men kill 2400+ women annually in gender based violence. Beyond horrific. My God.
The man who was shot by ice in nyc yesterday could have a rap sheet a mile long and I would still be like, “hey maybe ICE shouldn’t pull up on someone in a hi-vis vest with a long gun and shoot a bunch of bullets into a car with a child inside of it.”
normalize rescheduling hang outs bc you have a little cold
normalize admitting that you have a little cold
normalize ending the transmission of a little cold bc nobody wants to have one
the weird thing about reading so much as a child and gaining a huge vocabulary from that is I can't define a lot of words i use, i just…know that they would fit correctly in a specific sentence. does anyone else experience that 😭?