You think you’ve healed til you’re finally in a healthy relationship and realize you have so many triggers/unresolved trauma. I hope you don’t self-sabotage. I also hope your partner extends enough grace/patience and holds your hand as you rewire your brain.
consideration is powerful. it’s defined as “thoughtfulness towards others”. kindness is consideration in motion. one act of kindness or thoughtfulness has the power to change the trajectory of someone’s day. simply because energy is contagious.
Nobody wants to talk about envy bc it’s frowned upon, but every single uncomfortable emotion is an opportunity for growth and self awareness. Envy reflects to us that we know what we deserve but also where we have a lack mentality for what we think we can’t have.
Limited ass mindset bc why does she have to wanna fuck him? You don’t have to want to fck someone in order to believe they should be treated like a decent human being
you do a lot for people because it’s who you are… but i can’t help but wonder if that was instilled in you at a young age. that you are only worthy of love if you are useful to that person. so you over perform and do the most for people you like, who may not even deserve it.
A 77-yr-old has lived in the same Brooklyn building for over 20 years
He says a neighbor & his landlord want to push him out with loud music, inviting squatters inside & pouring liquid through the ceiling
Why? His $450/month rent-stabilized apartment
https://t.co/TG7utX5h2W
We pick careers out of a place of trauma and then are surprised when we lose steam to sustain them in the long term.
It has dawned on me that I have never chosen a job out of a place of joy.
I was today years old when I found out that tampons are linked to BV (bacterial vaginosis). The bleached products in tampons causes vaginal pH issues, which can result in BV + yeast infections.
If you don't know: who you are, what you actually like, and struggle to make a decision as an adult without the help of a parent...
You might have been raised by a narcissistic parent
HERE'S WHY 🧵: