I'm just here to use this place as a diary, bro
25/f/Dom leaning switch
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Conversation welcome by all, tribute upon request.
Every sub wants the intense moments.
The drain that makes his hands shake and the message that makes his heart race.
But real submission lives in the boring parts.
Sending the Tuesday tribute when I have not posted in three days. Following the morning check in routine when there is no praise waiting. Holding the rule when nobody is watching and nothing feels electric.
If you can only serve when your body is buzzing, you are serving yourself.
@Dominant_Need Here to add: Switching does NOT diminish you capabilities of firmly and securely holding either role. It's just another layer of yourself to explore.
@FindaddyJ Honestly, yeah. Im pretty lenient as a person, ngl and enjoy casual play outside of fin stuff but if you're gonna directly try and work around?? Fuck that noise, not interested.
Trying to circumvent any payment by saying you just wand 'conversation' and then immediately trying to push the convo into NSFW or kink related just makes you an idiot, btw.
@HailArachne Yeah! I get that. Ive done intox play before, and really enjoy it in the rigjt situation. Just want wveryone safe and healthy throughout all levels of kink ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ
The amount of "Dominants" I've seen claiming years of experience while not knowing even the most basic BDSM safety fundamentals is ridiculous.
Then people wonder why so many submissives walk away from online dynamics with horror stories.
If you're claiming years of experience but don't know the foundations of BDSM safety, stop hiding behind your title and start hitting the books before you get someone hurt.
Experience means nothing if you never learned how to do it safely. ๐
@HailArachne In the case that it is all previously discussed and agreed upon, that is the kink. I misunderstood in thinking that you were defending pushing hard beyond discussed limits and boundaries in order to further extort a victim. My apologies ๐
Good morning to everyone except:
โ People who had sex today
โ People who had sex last night
โ People who like grits
โ People who over estimate their importance on this app
โ People who have me blocked
โ People who spoil movies for others
Recommend everyone to give this thread a full read. If you see yourself in it, you aren't alone. Your voice is heard, your story is valid, and I, for one, relate to you.
What CPTSD Actually Is... (Long Thread)
CPTSD (Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) comes from prolonged, repeated trauma, especially in relationships, not single events.
Itโs not about one accident.
Itโs not about one incident.
Itโs about being unsafe for a long time, especially when escape isnโt possible.๏ฟผ