Yesterday I told my therapist I couldn't move on.
She handed me a journal and said,
“If someone's no longer in your life but still takes up space in your thoughts, these 10 questions will help you understand why your heart keeps going back to a chapter that has already ended.”
Here they are: 1/2
HNI Indian parents are actively destroying their GenZ kids with their passive income. They thought they were securing their family's future.
In reality, they just planted a generation of completely unemployable lethargic kids.
If you go to any Tier-1 or Tier-2 city today and you will see alot of 25 year old Gen Z kids trapped in the ultimate wealth dilemma
1. The Ego Trap: They refuse to take blue collar or ground level sales jobs because it hurts the family reputation.
2. The Lifestyle Trap: They refuse to take an entry level ₹30,000 corporate job because that doesn't even cover their baseline monthly expenses for cafes, fuel, and weekend trips.
3. The Entitlement Trap: They refuse to take over the traditional family business that actually built their wealth because it isn't aesthetic or is too boring.
So what do they actually do? Absolutely nothing.
They wake up at 11 AM. They live off the passive rental yield their parents built. Maybe they stroll into their dad's office for 4 hours a day to sit in an AC cabin to play Director-director and leave.
And the parents are 100% to blame.
Their obsession with providing a comfortable life and feeding their kids passive income has completely killed the family's active ambition. The father is still grinding 10 hours a day at 55, while the 25 year old son is treating life like an all inclusive resort.
If your father is funding your comfort zone, you are just a massive liability on a monthly allowance.
Worse, Indian parents actively refuse to let their kids move out of the city to struggle. Their entire logic is why leave when your father is already earning enough here?
In the US, kids are pushed out to build their own survival skills. In India, We are suffocating our kids with comfort.
3 harsh truths you won’t like but they’ll make your life easier:
• Being needed is not the same as being loved.
• What you call "high standards" is fear of criticism
• Your busyness is an excuse to avoid your emotions
Nobody talks about how fucking exhausting eating is.
Every single day you have to figure out what to eat, what to cook, what to buy, then do it all over again tomorrow.
It’s the same cycle on repeat. It genuinely feels like we’re trapped in a simulation doing the same shit over and over.
Screw it. I want to pay it forward.
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Quick question: are you performing indifference to provoke them, or have you genuinely grieved the fantasy so there's nothing left to perform?
They detect performance. They miss genuine detachment.
One feeds the loop. The other starves it.
Men overestimate the role of looks in their attractiveness while ignoring energy, vibe, and aura.
A negative, closed off, threat-scanning man repels people without saying a word.
A genuinely happy, present, open man draws people in without trying.
I’ve seen this play out personally hundreds of times in my own game.
The days I show up happy and present, women notice. The days I’m in my head, I’m invisible.
My face and height don't change between those days. My energy does.
“By learning how to attend to, befriend, and surrender to the energies of grief, despair, and fear, we create conditions for something new to arise… We release ourselves from the strangled grip of pain into an amazing alchemy by which grief, despair, and fear are transmuted to gratitude, faith and joy.”
- Miriam Greenspan
It was a much bigger protest than most of us anticipated. I think for a moment, even the govt might have been caught off guard.
So, hats off to the Aam Aadmi Party. These guys understand mass psychology, especially youth psychology, better than most other politicians, and they know how to manipulate it and use it to their advantage. Even Congress, a much larger party with more resources and experience, cannot mobilize this kind of protest.
Also, this event again exposes the BJP’s ongoing vulnerability in the modern info-war. They fail to recognize a fundamental truth: the youth are inherently anti-establishment, aggressive, and driven by cultural trends. If a protest is perceived as "cool" and culturally dominant, participation explodes because joining becomes a way to signal belonging and status. You cannot counter this energy with outdated hashtags or by reminding the youth how bad things were under previous regimes. That historical comparison means nothing to a generation that never lived through it. The youth do not judge a govt against its past; they judge it against their own expectations for the future.
To fix this, the most important thing is BJP must aggressively reform its communication machinery. Fire the absolute dinosaurs running their digital strategy, those pre-2014 social media relics are still trapped in a time capsule, utterly clueless about the modern internet. These digital fossils don't understand anything beyond spamming robotic IT-cell hashtags and forcing artificial trends that everyone sees right through. In their place, the party must hire actual youth who live and breathe modern internet culture to build organic, decentralized narratives.