@novieverest I won't divorce her since we already have a child together but the day she falls sick she will use her 600k to treat herself my kobo will not enter her treatment.
A memorable moment as the leadership of the KWASU Law ⚖️ Students’ Society paid a courtesy visit to formally present the award 🏆 and commemorative flyer to our Chairman. We appreciate the thoughtful gesture and extend our gratitude for the recognition.
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i'm sorry but sex will never be enough just for me to stick around. I need my soul fed. Spiritual growth. Deep conversations. Genuine effort. Emotional intelligence. Consistency.
I remember some years ago when I was dating Boda Ade. His friends & family used to call me “our wife” like it was cute.
Meanwhile, they all knew he was dating another woman he was already planning a wedding with.
So I smiled, not knowing I was just part of a story I wasn’t the main character in.
Since that day, I can’t stand that phrase anymore. “Our wife” doesn’t always mean belonging… sometimes it just means deception dressed as affection.
I learnt this from my uncle.
He and his ex fiancé had issues. He went to her family house to plead with her.
Her parents were present, he went there with just his friend. Another heated argument started as they both narrated their sides of the story.
My uncle kept quiet because he was in the midst of his to-be in-laws. The girl continued running her mouth until she pointed a finger to my uncle and said, "eleyii naa."
That statement changed everything.
My uncle said, he stood up, thanked his ex parents, and told his friend to meet him in the car. He left.
Later, everyone pleaded with him later to forgive the girl. The girl too pleaded. They got back together, but he told the girl he'll never marry her.
She thought he would change his mind, so she got pregnant. He took care of the pregnancy and accepted the child. But he never married her.
Years later, he married someone else.
This is exactly what I did to my friend of more than 18 years.
He lived with me for 6 months together with his fiancée and saw the steel and firmness I used in leading my home.
My woman dared not disrespect him.
Less than 4 months after his marriage, his wife started moving funny and almost extending it to his guys.
The moment I realised my guy was indecisive and weak, I just withdrew from him and almost a year later, he hasn’t even had the gumption to inquire about my distancing.
What i don’t give, i don’t take.
I’m very Old Testament in nature and I don’t keep prisoners.
If you remove my wife from my life this past 72 hours, I fit kpeme.
We have been moving houses and everywhere is so scattered like mad but once I ask “where is my blue boxers with duduke painting”, she will go straight to the point. “Uhmmmn, it should be in the yellow bag beside the bed”. What of my green comb with black tattoo? “It is inside the black box on the shelf”.
Women actually own the home. I feel like an alien. With how scattered and overwhelming my life is, she still has every detail in her head. Obirin 🙌
In the mosque today, my daughter sat beside me performing her ablution before prayer 🥹🤍
I noticed she was carefully counting how many times she washed her hands and I suddenly heard:
1… 2… 3… 😀😀
May Almighty Allah accept it from her and from all of us as an act of ibadah. 🤲🕋
I respectfully seek your opinion on a matter that has left me deeply concerned regarding a proposed marital union.
Approximately one week ago, I completed the traditional introduction rites with a lady I intended to marry. Following this, I deemed it appropriate for her to formally meet my mother, who had recently returned from Canada after omugwo.
During this visit, while we were both seated in the living room, my fiancée proceeded into the kitchen unannounced and prepared this ( i will attach picture) without informing either myself or my mother. My mum asked our help jf she is cooking ans she said is uncle wife that is cooking , my mother calmly addressed her, stating that although the gesture may have been well-intentioned, it would have been more appropriate for her to inform her beforehand. She further advised that this is not right
However, the response I witnessed was both unexpected and troubling. My fiancée replied in a confrontational tone, saying, “Is it not just chicken? Did I kee anyone?” My mother, maintaining composure, cautioned her against such a manner of speaking, In response, the lady stated that she is from a particular tribe known for being “stubbornn” and emphasized that she is not Igbo, she said i am not an igbo girl to take such.
At this point, my mother chose to disengage and walked away without further confrontation.
Subsequently, my fiancée approached me and alleged that my mother had been rudee to her. Given my knowledge of my mother’s temperament, I found this claim inconsistent and decided to verify the situation through CCTV footage. Upon review, it became evident that my fiancée had indeed acted in a disrespectfulll and confrontational manner.
When I confronted her with this, she not only refused to take accountability but escalated the situation by physically assaultinggg me she slappeddd me after which she packed her belongings and left.
Since then, I have blocked all direct communication with her. However, she has made repeated attempts to reach me through third parties, expressing a willingness to apologize to my mother and reconcile.
Given these circumstances disrespect toward my mother, refusal to accept correction, physical aggression, and subsequent attempts at reconciliation I am compelled to ask
Is this a suitable partner for marriage, I am scared of her now .
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How is this a problem? If it happened to me, I don't think I will be concerned about what anyone would say. Walai, I will wish her safe delivery and follow up with her health condition. May Allahbgrant her safe delivery.
I have noted with increasing concern the heightened pronouncements on Nigeria by President Donald Trump. This follows his designation of Nigeria as a “country of particular concern.”
It is important to emphasise that our country is a sovereign nation whose people face different threats from outlaws across the country. The insecurity we face does not distinguish based on religious, ethnic, or political beliefs.
The United States should assist the Nigerian authorities with better cutting-edge technology to tackle these problems, rather than posing a threat that could further polarise our country.
The Nigerian government should also consider appointing special envoys from its distinguished diplomats to engage the American government. Additionally, it is necessary to appoint permanent ambassadors to represent Nigeria’s interests on the international stage.
To my fellow countrymen, this is an important moment where we should emphasise unity of belonging over division.
God bless Nigeria. - RMK
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