Do’anya cantik banget :
“Ya Allah, aku berlindung kepadamu dari ketidakpastian masa depan, dari keputusan yang keliru, dari perihnya kenyataan, dari pahitnya kekecewaan, dari hati yang berbolak balik, dari penghianatan manusia dan cinta yang salah.”
Bertambah usia, makna lirik juga berubah.
Lagu Sistar, Give it To Me tuh dinyanyiin Soyou pas umur dia 23 tahun.
Liriknya:
Before I turn thirty
Will I ever get married?
Dulu pas umur 23 tahun, Soyou ngerasa oh ini lirik lagu genit aja, terus ngira ya orang-orag emang nikah sebelum usianya 30 ga sih??
Sekarang umur dia udah 34, Soyou ngerasa jleb lirik ini maknanya jadi berubah ya...
Bahkan orang-orang ada yang minta liriknya bisa ga diganti "Bisakah aku menikah sebelum usiaku 40 atau 50-an tahun aja?"
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So l actually just looked this up and apparently it's true.. middle children are dwindling.
In the 1970's, it was common to have three or four children. Today, almost 65% of women with children only have one or two. So the "middle child" is becoming increasingly rare. The fact that middle children are going extinct is the most middle child thing I've ever heard.
Orang dewasa punya standar tinggi kalau ketemu anak kecil.
Di mata orang dewasa, anak harus ceria, harus mau respon segala pertanyaan, harus mau salim, harus mengikuti norma sosial dengan perfect.
Anak kecil teriak dikit
"Gak diajarin ortunya ya?"
Anak kecil nangis
"Kok cengeng sih?"
Anak kecil slow to warm up
"Masih kecil udah introvert ya"
Anak kecil ikut ortu nongkrong, bosen, butuh input stimulus lain
"Rewel ya ternyata"
Kata gw mah elu yg rewel. Udah dewasa tapi judgemental banget ke anak-anak. Anak kecil tuh sedang belajar memahami dirinya sekaligus memahami dunia yang semua isinya tuh besar-besar. It gets too overwhelmed sometimes. It's a part of the growth process. Mari kita jadi orang dewasa yg wajar gitu lho.
Panggilan "mas" dianggap gagah berani, sedangkan panggilan "mbak" dianggap rendahan dan menjijikan, dan kesannya cuma untuk pekerja kasar.
Classist parah, misoginis juga.
Pdhl bagus dipanggil mbak, mpok, teteh drpd tbtb dipanggil nek, bu, bund, mom pdhl lu masih muda.
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ternyata arti dari "Abu Huraira" adalah "Bapak dari Anak Kucing" "Father of the Kitten". julukan ini diberikan Rasulullah kepada Abu Huraira karena beliau sangat menyukai kucing dan sering terlihat membawa atau bermain dengan anak kucing. this makes me giggle, we got you Abu Huraira
REMEMBERING ERIC DANE
Eric Dane was best known for his unforgettable turn as Dr. Mark Sloan — “McSteamy” — on “Grey’s Anatomy.” Over the course of his career, he also starred in “Euphoria,” “X-Men: The Last Stand” and “Marley & Me.”
Statement from his family: "With heavy hearts, we share that Eric Dane passed on Thursday afternoon following a courageous battle with ALS. He spent his final days surrounded by dear friends, his devoted wife, and his two beautiful daughters, Billie and Georgia, who were the center of his world. Throughout his journey with ALS, Eric became a passionate advocate for awareness and research, determined to make a difference for others facing the same fight. He will be deeply missed, and lovingly remembered always. Eric adored his fans and is forever grateful for the outpouring of love and support he’s received. The family has asked for privacy as they navigate this impossible time.”
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