Stephen Pilling

A dad who will always defend his child’s rights, voice, and future.

[Stephen Pilling @Pilling79]

A Broken System:

When your child has Special Educational Needs (SEN) in Northern Ireland, you learn that you can’t just be a parent. You have to become a researcher, a campaigner, and a legal shield. Right now, many families across NI are trapped in a cruel, manufactured summer limbo, and my family is one of them.

My son has a legally binding Statement of SEN.

Throughout his primary school years, he had a highly successful education with 1-to-1 provision and a specialist classroom setting.

This framework wasn't just a success; it was a lifeline. We’ve years of real world experience proving that when he is provided with a dedicated assistant and a properly resourced specialist environment, he thrives.

Yet, as he prepares to transition to post-primary school this September, the system has completely broken down.

Earlier this year, the Education Authority (EA) instructed us to visit post-primary schools and select three preferences. We were led to believe he had a genuine choice. We made absolutely sure our choices were entirely needs-led, and most importantly, we made sure our son was fully involved in the process.
For any child, visiting big new schools brings worries, questions, and anxiety. For a child with additional needs, those feelings are massively exacerbated. It was a rocky road, but as parents, we did our job: we reassured him, we supported him, and we helped him process the change. Following those visits, he did what any child would do - he imagined his future. In his own mind, he visualised himself walking through the doors of his first or second choice school. He felt safe.

Then, a week past Friday, the EA issued a devastating update: there is no placement confirmed for him.

This is what hurts the most. To ask a vulnerable child to do the emotional heavy lifting of preparing for a massive life transition, only to pull the rug out from under him, is unacceptable. When we had to tell him that his placement wasn't confirmed, he simply could not understand why. How do you explain to a child who did everything right that the state has no room for him? The system didn't just fail a deadline; they hurt my son and caused him significant emotional distress.

Mainstream families received clarity and celebrated their placements on May 9th. We were handed total radio silence and told we would get an update "in due course." I refuse to sit quietly in the dark while my son's emotional wellbeing and future are gambled with.

Over the last week, I have launched a multi-tiered campaign for accountability:

The EA Link Officer: I have attempted to gain continual, transparent updates. The result? Total silence and zero success.

The Political Spectrum: I contacted local MLAs and party leadership across the board. I received engagement from Sinn Féin, the Alliance Party, and the SDLP. I received absolute silence and no response from the DUP.

Assembly & Ministerial Escalation: I have formally escalated the crisis to the Northern Ireland Assembly Education Committee, senior leadership at the Education Authority, the Department of Education, and the Minister of Education.

Social Media Advocacy: I am continuing to directly highlight these country-wide failures to the First Minister and deputy First Minister online.

In my opinion, the EA routinely relies on last-minute panic, hoping that by late August, exhausted parents will accept an unsuitable, unresourced mainstream desk just to have an answer.

I will not let them dilute the care that made my son thrive, and I will not let them ignore the emotional distress they have caused him. To address both my son's immediate crisis and the ongoing, country-wide failure of this system, I am currently in the process of mobilising a coordinated front with the Children’s Law Centre, NICCY (The Children's Commissioner), and the Equality Commission for Northern Ireland.

That’s week 1. Let’s see what tomorrow brings.
@NIACfEd @moneillsf @little_pengelly @paulgivan @EqualityCommNI

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@Sarah6pzd @UselessControl @xxMarthaJxx @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk 😎

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@Dermopj @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk I’d say 99.999% the governments fault with a dash of fascist and racist ideology with a garnish of ultranationalism.

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@desmoulins1760 @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Do you support him? yes or no?

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I have done - multiple times. You can read my replies. And I am very aware of the Establishments neglect of our communities and I am also aware of those preying on peoples fears. If you support SYL that’s your decision. If you think he will help to deliver a brighter future in this country, good luck to you.

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I’m not shocked, and I agree with you - Governments handling of migration has been a significant contributing factor. I think your point is spot on. And to add, the man who brutally attacked Stephen Ogilvie should never step free from prison - no argument. But today 27 innocent people are currently homeless in Belfast due to being burned out their homes. Thats what I don’t agree with.

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@NormLeStorm @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Of course I can. The attack was barbaric and that man should be in jail for the rest of his life. Should innocent people be burned out of their homes because of that man?

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@Sarah6pzd @UselessControl @xxMarthaJxx @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Of course you don’t! Thats clear to see.

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Sharing/amplifying the graphic Belfast attack footage ✅
Turning one individual crime into a wider anti-immigration grievance ✅
Using the incident as a rallying point for protests✅
Encouraging people to take to the streets / supporting calls for demonstrations✅
Feeding an online atmosphere where migrants and minority-owned homes/businesses were then targeted ✅

The attack on Stephen Ogilvie was barbaric and my hope is that man who did the attack never gets out of prison.

Do you support innocent UK citizens being burned out of their homes because of this monsters crime?

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@WholeTeslaShow @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Define Invader? Traitor to what and who exactly?

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@Dermopj @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk I’ve done it already. As I said catch up.

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@Dermopj @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Catch up

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@JennyGUSA1971 @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk That’s not very Catholic? You do know what that means don’t you?

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@unwizeneds @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk You have no clue. Seriously. Shameful.

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@unwizeneds @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Hold on, you are glad uk citizens are subjects of the chaos? You won’t denounce thuggery. True colours will always shine through.

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@CrimsonPKing @xxMarthaJxx @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk That attack was barbaric. No argument here. Do innocent Belfast citizens deserve to be burnt out their homes?

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@unwizeneds @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Do you denounce the people who burnt innocent Belfast citizens from their homes? Yes or no?

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@unwizeneds @TRobinsonNewEra @moneillsf @elonmusk Peaceful? Or do you support the people who has burned innocent families out of thier homes in the city I love?