I just wanted to put this here, because soon another person would come on here to lie against me and mimi who just hates my existence will have so much to say 🙏psalm 35.
I’ve been on Twitter since 2022, and up until now, all I’ve really done is cruise, joke around with my friends, mind my business, and enjoy the app. When I get scammed, I come to the timeline, rant about it, maybe joke about it, and move on. I’ve always been accessible and generally cool with people, especially women.
The first thing I probably regret was creating a community. My friend had a male only community and wouldn’t let women in, so I decided to create one that was open to everyone. I wanted it to have purpose, so we turned it into something meaningful. We did outreaches, gave back when we could, and tried to make it useful.
The first person to ever accuse me of being a bigot did so because I told someone to rest. Ironically, it was someone I considered a close mutual, someone I had always supported and never viewed negatively. She went on another page and called me all sorts of names. I responded, and from that point on, it felt like I was permanently on her mind.
One thing I can say categorically is that every major issue I’ve had on this app started because someone came for me first. Yet, somehow, it is never about what they did, the lies they told, or the agenda behind it. It’s always about my reaction. Even when I provide evidence and they have absolutely nothing to support their claims.
For a while, I genuinely wondered if I was doing something that made strangers dislike me this much. But at this point, whether people agree or not, I’ve concluded that a lot of it comes from envy. What exactly some of you are jealous of, I honestly don’t know.
Because every single time someone comes for me and I respond, the insults suddenly become personal. “You’re buying love with money.” “You want to lead women.” “You think you’re the only one.” It’s always something oddly specific and personal, and more often than not, it comes from women older than me.
Again, I’ve never gone after any woman first on this app. If anything, I’ve involved myself in situations that had nothing to do with me simply because I wanted to defend women. I’ve inherited enemies because I chose to stand up for people when I felt it was the right thing to do.
Moving forward, if anyone decides to play games with my name, I’ll ignore it. I don’t care what is said, what narrative is being pushed, or what agenda is behind it. I’ll simply conclude that you’re a fan.
I don’t want access to any of you, and I don’t want to give any access either. None of you are victims of me. If anything, the biggest victim of my actions has always been myself.
Am I a good person? No. Am I a bad person? No. Like everyone else, I’m flawed. The difference is that I’m done explaining myself to people who have already made up their minds.
@RuthieofBuj1@ebukahhhh Please I don’t like talking to irritants like you.
wtf do you mean from where to where?
Are you that hungry? Trading your integrity to smear someone else for what?
With your eyes wide open, you saw that screenshot and this is what your brain could process? must be empty?
You losers aren’t beating the “jealous mean girls “ allegations, you saw that she brought our private convo out first but because of your one sided hatred you ignored her own tweet and focused on mine 😂you will not heal, you and the stupid ebuka who’s a man btw. Hypocrites
@ebukahhhh I don’t monitor haters 😂😂🙏this account isn’t hidden everyone knows it’s me, foolish monkey! I couldn’t quote you with my main so I came to respond to you loser here. Foolish bastard get a life. You are too grown to be caught up in women’s business except you are zesty.
@RuthieofBuj1 Duracell and that babe yeah? I randomly saw the screenshot on the TL but I don’t know who was exposing who’s secret, didn’t pay attention
I really think some people underestimate how much damage inconsistency does to a person.
One minute you’re calling them every night, reassuring them, making them feel chosen, making future plans, acting like they matter to you so deeply… then suddenly everything changes and now they’re expected to act normal because “nothing technically happened.”
But something did happen.
You created emotional safety in someone and then disappeared from it. That kind of confusion really stays with people. Especially the ones who love genuinely and don’t know how to pretend they don’t care.
I think one of the saddest things about going through too many disappointments is that when something good finally happens to you, you don’t even know how to accept it properly.
You become so used to things falling apart, people changing, promises failing and happiness being temporary that you start waiting for the bad part even while things are still good.
You’ll smile and still secretly wonder when everything will go wrong.
You’ll be loved and still question if it’s real.
You’ll receive good news and still feel scared to get too excited because life has taught you that sometimes things are taken away just as fast as they come.
It’s like your mind no longer knows how to rest in happiness because it has spent too much time surviving disappointment.
Because moving on is rarely instant.
You can stop talking to someone and still wonder about them every day. After sharing your time, emotions, routines and vulnerability with someone, it’s hard for the brain to suddenly act like they no longer exist.
Sometimes people stalk because they miss them.
Sometimes it’s ego.
Sometimes they want to see if the other person moved on first.
And sometimes they’re just trying to understand how someone who once cared so much became a stranger overnight.