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@QIM957 @bloodstreamrunz @Epic5nailien @eonLepidopteran @oncloud_e it isnt “punching yourself” to describe your dysphoria or the circumstances forced upon you

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@sillyjamjam anything to discount how trans women might really be unlucky or unfortunate

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@hecubian_devil trans women just dont wanna look like men*

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@hecubian_devil trans women just dont wanna look like women, some people have more dysphoria, some people need more to be happy, some people are genetically unlucky, some people are given less, making someone elses vent about yourself and then punishing her for it is the real selfish perspective

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@sleepy_shivers that isnt true though! most c1s women do not have largely male dimorphism, most c1s women do look like women, unfortunately puberty does skew dimorphism and presented phenotype in ways that are sometimes permanent

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@checkria i think everyone should just try and be as kind as they can

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@sleepy_shivers jealousy over social privilege isnt the same as “hating women” and our collective tendency to ascribe misogyny to trans women is an artifact of transmisogyny

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@sleepy_shivers acknowledging sexual dimorphism, genetic luck, and the extent of effort isnt “defeatist” i feel you only label it that way because it isnt a necessarily cheerful reality

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@woodstockSSB if we went even one day without comparing trans women to male incels the world would explode, we have to do it, i personally hope we never stop

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@BeeluArtsNG @BillbertBobert @boymode4ever @nyaraVT “checkmate internet trans woman, you only want to look like a woman because of pedophilia, im woke somehow”

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@nyaraVT listen up chrannies: you are a self-hating 4chan incel if you dont wanna look like a man, and dont you dare develop internet words to describe the pain you’re living through, because then you’re worse than hitler

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@rlycrossedup @bloodstreamrunz even if that was the case, they were able to escape, a privilege not all are afforded

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@rlycrossedup @bloodstreamrunz except that isnt something anyone has said, i actually dont think ive ever seen one of these girls call someone else a “slut,” bizarre levels of bad faith with u

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@rlycrossedup @bloodstreamrunz if you dont want to look like a man you’re and incel, if you think sexual dimorphism exists you’re and incel, if you acknowledge some people have better genetics you’re an incel, if you think passing is a privilege you’re an incel, if you mention you’re dysphoric out loud you’re

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@hecubian_devil that’s what you’re describing btw, selfishness, crucially not the ableist vilified idea of narcissism you have in your head

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@Q_B411 @coriposting i will never stop caring, i will never stop trying to be kind, you will have to pry my love and reverence for the people around me out of my cold dead hands, i will never stop caring

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@Q_B411 @coriposting lots of beauty, and in this case all of passing, isnt subjective. jst strawmanning my point to avoid an privilege you might otherwise engage with lmao

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@x0_ox3 bye, consider growing a human heart

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@x0_ox3 the “online culture” you just described is just trans women who don’t wanna look like men, many of them with greater than average dysphoria or worse than average circumstances