thinking about that Portlandia sketch where one of Fred Armesin's characters gets hit with a C&D from Matt Groening for bootlegging and Fred is like Whose law says I can't do this? That's not my law. My law is this. And points and and it's just a sign he made that says "BE TRUE"
@DeeBeeEyyGee@Geniasis@adje__ It clears his name and reputation and he’s still dead. Both situations are tragic but acting like they’re comparable is asinine
@CaptionQuirk Valid points. But in the context of ignoring someone on Grindr, an app ostensibly used for finding sex, it seems like those extreme cases may be the exception not the norm?
so many gay men can't admit to themselves that the reason they ghost and ignore people instead of just saying they're not interested is that they enjoy the feeling of being desired by someone whom they think is beneath them
Your heart is not a state secret. You are meant to declare allegiances. You are meant to have favourites. Write the letter. Miss the train. Stay up until dawn talking. You should be caught red-handed loving something, someone.
No offense to Aristotle but it’s not just gay men it’s a generation of people regardless of sexuality afraid of any sort of confrontation. Easier to ignore than to have an uncomfortable conversation