I don't think people understand.. You can literally drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you on any level 🤷🏽♀️ . Whether it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. There's only so much a person can take.
I work on myself because I understand that I am responsible for where I end up. Not for everything that happened to me, but for every response, every habit, and every decision I made after it. That distinction is everything. Blame is easy. Ownership is what actually changes your life.