As a man, Eat protein. Lift weights. Focus on money. Go for long walks. Mind your own business. Believe in God. You'll solve 99% of problems in your life.
The reason people keep changing goals is that changing the goal gives the same emotional relief as making progress. Your brain feels renewed because the future becomes exciting again, while the actual hard work has been postponed.
Choose the path you want & the type of life you want to live then say NO to anything that isn't pushing you towards achieving that. Avoid distractions!
You’re supposed to use every unfair advantage you have. Connections, looks; money, all of it.
You're not noble by picking the hardest path just to look like an underdog.
Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
"The first gulp from the glass of natural sciences will turn you into an atheist, but at the bottom of the glass, God is waiting for you."- Heisenberg, cofounder of quantum mechanics
Deep understanding leads you to miracles.
There is so much bigger than you.
Dare to explore.
People underestimate how much confidence comes from evidence. If you keep telling yourself you are capable, but your habits show avoidance, your brain believes the habits. Self-belief is built through actions, not affirmations.