A MAN who CAN'T admit when HE wrong.. will DRAIN the LIFE outta YOU. Every ARGUMENT turn into a DEFENSE case. Every TIME he MESS up, it's an EXCUSE. Every TIME you CALL him out, some how YOU the PROBLEM. He'll FLIP the WHOLE story before he EVER say, "Yeah... I was WRONG." After a while, you STOP trying to FIX shít because you REALIZE you ain't ARGUING with somebody looking for the TRUTH... you ARGUING with somebody trying to WIN. And THAT type of SHÌT get EXHAUSTING REAL quick 💯
@grayshurz I prefer this over that silent resentment and unexpected outburst. Sometimes we underperform with our friends without even knowing especially when life starts catching up on us.
something tht has really helped me this yr was straight up telling people that they “arent tht busy” and not “busier than me” when they try to bs me about making plans. i dnt have the patience to pretend tht u are so busy tht u cant find one day in 30-31 to go out to eat
Nonsexual intimacy is such a lost art.
The eye contact, the gentle touch, deep convo, holding hands, mutual support, hugging, non sexual massages, cooking a meal together, shared experiences, cuddles, curiosity, silence feels warm.
I can go on and on about this.