This will sound insane but Southern Evangelical girls are bombarded with messages about male supremacy! Marry a man, obey him forever, dim your spark, etc. Women like Dolly and characters like Miss Piggy break through. They showed me that my spark doesn’t have to go anywhere.
my partner just said “remember when you used to hop over the center console in the car and straddle me when we first got together” and i was like yeah babe we’re both too fat for that now