My intuition is SO crazy. I can literally have no evidence of what's going on but still know there's something going on behind my back & I'm always right😭
I don’t like mean girls. However, I recognize and do enjoy those girls who aren’t friendly but they’re kind. Those girls get unfairly grouped in with mean girls and you gotta be able to spot the difference.
I've actually tasted trying to fix people, and I've tasted forcing the truth down their throats. I highly recommend not caring more about people's lives than they do. No one is your assignment.
Not even the ones you love.
The idea that "30 days builds a habit" is a joke to an ADHD brain. I can do something flawlessly every day for 3 weeks, miss exactly one day, and my brain will permanently delete the entire routine
I read it somewhere "We romanticized the wrong organ the stomach is more emotional than the heart" and it feels so true. We feel butterflies in our stomach and when we're sad we lose our appetite our stomach gets affected by emotions way more than we realize.
THINGS ADHD BRAINS CAN’T STAND:
• Repeating the same instructions 4 times
• Being interrupted while finally focusing
• Loud chewing
• “You should’ve just remembered”
• Too many notifications at once
• Small talk when mentally exhausted
• Starting a task with no clear deadline
• Waiting mode before an appointment
• People talking too slowly
• Boring meetings that could’ve been one text
• Losing motivation the second something feels forced
• Someone moving your stuff “somewhere safe”
• Background noise while trying to think
• Being told to “just relax”
• Remembering every embarrassing moment at 2am
You cannot repair a relationship with someone who insists the real problem is always your reaction, never their behavior.
They focus on how you spoke, how loud you got, or how emotional you became, while completely ignoring the disrespect, neglect, or hurtful actions that caused your response in the first place. This pattern turns every conflict into your fault. It blocks any chance of genuine healing. Real progress in a relationship requires accountability from both sides.