funny how people who claim they can’t wrap their heads around singular they/them continue to struggle with my pronouns after i give them he/him. almost like grammar was never the issue here but ok
having your emotions consistently invalidated as a child & one day waking up as an adult expected to validate your own emotions in order to set boundaries & trust your feelings over everyone else’s is an extremely wild fucking experience. be gentle with yourself. you’re learning.
sucks that now that my nervous system knows the relief of actually tending to my unconscious distress i can’t just smoke weed or watch netflix about it… i have to SIT DOWN and be in my BODY??? disgusting