Proverbs519Man

Happily married man living his best Proverbs 5:19 life. One man+one woman / naked and not ashamed in an undefiled bed. Anti porn but pro vibrancy.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

Using language to arouse romantic feelings in your wife isn't only smart, it's Biblical. Ever read Song of Solomon? 🤨

The techniques used in this video are based on observation and from counseling several husbands on the matter. Try it yourself. Start a fire. #marriedlife #sex

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @S_Directive I agree that's a problem, but so is not really "nice guy" or loser but just an exhausted give up sort of personality.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @StirlingWisdom I wouldn't. But not because I think they have it worse but because I like being a man.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta I'm not sure if this really only applies to wives. I think most people are not that self aware.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@RealDianeYap This must be why the Romance genre of books is always so chaste and never merges animalistic urges and passion with feelings of love.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @RealDianeYap Fantastic advice.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @RealDianeYap Sure, but why is it designed that way. Is it to make men continue to behave in specific ways and sex to be the reward or something? I would have thought orgasms free of the burden of pregnancy and childbirth would be a reward.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@TheeJoelLopez Short of duct tape though how do you logistically manage more than a 5 minute quickie with the wife?

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @RealDianeYap I guess I can see that. I don't disagree I just wonder sometimes why that is the case. Human females are already different from animals in terms of heat cycles so I am curious why it's designed that way.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @Rianstone You better believe it

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @RealDianeYap However, your explanation doesn't fully explain why after fertility drops that female interest in sex doesn't tend to spike. You would think the lack of responsibility would cause a wave of excitement.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@GiffLasta @RealDianeYap That is much more applicable than not wanting to be penetrated. Look at the promiscuity among gay men for example.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

I don't think that is really the case. We don't know what it is to be penetrated vaginally because we don't have one, but sexual difference has much more to do with hormonal or physical cost.

[Diane Yap @RealDianeYap]

Most men are unable or unwilling to understand what it means to be on the receiving end of an unwanted penetrative sex act.

It is their per capita.

[Andy Webb @PastorAndyWebb]

I listened to Eric Conn and Brian Sauve explaining how a Nazi publishing house ended up at the "War for Normal" conference hosted by their publishing house, New Christendom. I don't personally feel at all relieved by their explaination, in fact I think they did more to highlight why so many Reformed Christians are alarmed by the spread of certain strains of Christian Nationalism.

Let me try to explain why.

First, I have been going to Reformed Christian conferences of varying sizes for 33 years, and I have never been to one that was selling pro-Third Reich, Pro-Nazi books. In fact, at every one I've been to, had someone set up the same table that was at the "War for Normal" conference, people would have been appalled, and the organizers would have booted them in less than an hour. In this case though, the table was up throughout the conference and only became controversial AFTER the event finished. As for the ridiculous "inadequately vetted" idea, no deep dive was necessary; all you had to do was visit the Antelope Hill website. The top page is literally full of works by men like Josef Goebbels and Adolf Hitler. You can't be anywhere on the site without realizing it's clearly pro-Third Reich.

Second, at no point in their discussion did they repudiate the actual Nazi stuff, which promotes the entire Aryan, Master Race, Nuremberg laws, liquidation of the Jews and "useless eaters", twisting of Christianity, slavery of the subhumans, agenda. They called those "varying political works" and encouraged people to read them for themselves. The only thing that they admitted to being upset about was the "Pro-White Businesses" card given away with the books that sent people to businesses selling tarot cards, porn, and a Nordic cult. They didn't even mention the Nazi jewellery site. They made it clear they don't have any problem with selling actual Nazi propaganda. Brian Sauve speaking of Antelope Hill, actually said, “I don’t have a problem with them” and mentioned he owned and was looking forward to reading one of their premier, 'It's all a Jewish conspiracy' books.

Third, they used the podcast to call people's concerns about Nazi propaganda at a Christian family conference, "Faux outrage" drummed up by "marionette people." Sauve had this message for those on Twitter who are posting about this (which I assume would include people like me): “I have no respect for you as a person. I think you’re bad people and you are actively doing harm against the church, and you should repent or you will go to hell.” I'm not sure what part of being concerned about Nazi material being sold at a Christian conference is "actively doing harm against the church"? but I'll move on...

Fourthly, they actually spent time peddling some of the outright lies that are becoming part and parcel of the "anti-PWC" community. I'll just give you one: they claimed that Churchill was the one who initiated incendiary raids on civilian targets, when in fact the Nazis had bombed plenty of civilian targets in Spain during the Spanish Civil War (Guernica, for instance), and had already bombed Wieluń, Warsaw, and the city center of Rotterdam with incendiaries, killing thousands of civilians. The Dutch actually surrendered BECAUSE they were afraid their cities would be wiped out one by one. At the time, the British were still conducting pointless leaflet raids and fruitless attacks on military targets.

All in all, this was not an apology nor even an excuse. Yes, they are clearly embarrassed that Nordic pagan/occultic material that was part and parcel of the Third Reich was promoted at their conference, but they are certainly not embarrassed and will not apologize that books glorifying the Third Reich, Nazi leaders, Nazism, and the twisted Christianity of the Reich were being sold and read. More alarmingly, subsequent comments seem to indicate that very few of the people who attended the conference were concerned either. In fact, a lot of the attendees seem to want a lot more of this material (something Sauve actually alluded to).

Prior to 2020 if you'd told me that an American version of the "Positive Christianity" of the Third Reich (https://t.co/56Yac85x3g ) would have a following among people calling themselves Reformed, I wouldn't have believed it, but today, I'll admit, it's happening.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

You aren't. Social media is just full of sad people.

[The Audacity of Beks @BeksWineWhiskey]

I like having sex with my husband. I genuinely like my husband.

After this weekend I feel like I’m in the minority on this

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@tyromper Yeah sure would be nice. Although we do find a way to binge sex when we can sneak a day. But wow 5 days of sexual adventure sounds like heaven. I'm afraid I won't get one until I need to pop blue pills to make it happen.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

When you have 4 kids getting 5 days away in a row seems impossible or prohibitively expensive.

I'm happy to get an overnight date once a year.

[Tyler Todt @tyromper]

Marriage advice:

The first thing my wife & I plan every year is 5/6 days away with NO KIDS!

Super grateful we are blessed with eager grandparents!! Just checking in here for a couple nights of fun together! ❤️🔥

We also do quarterly overnight date nights.

Every week we do a couple date nights as well.

Our kids know we love GOD, EACH OTHER, & then THEM in that order.

Our kids witness mom & dad in love 12 years in.

Marriage shouldn't be two exhausted roommates raising kids never connecting......

Do you want that for your kids one day?!

If not, then realign priorities &
Create time to be MAN & WIFE not just mom & dad.

LOVE YOUR KIDS SO MUCH YOU IGNORE THEM FROM TIME TO TIME TO ENSURE THE MARRIAGE IS THRIVING!!

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@JThiel @GiaMMacool Honestly we co sleep and we still have a lot of sex. I don't think it has to happen that way.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

@man_of_options What is your stance on whether or not you can have sex with multiple wives at the same time. Some people endorse polygyny but condemn anything but one wife at once.

[Proverbs519Man @proverbs519man]

People often look for ways to invent moral rules for sex when the Biblical ones are strict enough.

[rue🌿 @Ruesavatar]

I just learned that Catholics consider oral sex to be a mortal sin, even within marriage, and I have never felt more relieved to be a Protestant.

[Mike Sudyk @sudyk]

If I told my 24yr old self something as a newlywed it would be - lust after your wife continually and see it as you will be married to a new woman every season essentially.