@xwanyex It’s really not that hard dude. Everything they do and believe is out of a desire to be liked. They think you are driven by the same desire. That’s why they think you’re “complaining” - so you will be understood and liked.
"Most engineers have never designed anything from scratch in their lives. Their brains are trained on iteration and refining someone else’s idea. When that’s all you’ve ever done, the big picture is invisible to you by construction."