marry the one that pursues & prays for you. marry the one that calls you back. marry the one that checks on your mental health. marry the one that would rather lose the argument than you. marry the one who puts your friendship + relationship + God before the image & romantics.
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You want to be in shape? Work out.
You want a relationship that lasts? Work on it.
Finished products are not wished into existence.
They are fought for.