someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more
everyone wants an obsessed girl until she can detect a 2% deviation from your behavioral baseline and wants to know exactly what happened at 3:17pm to cause it
i wake up, i cry over spilt milk, put all of my eggs in one basket, bite off more than i can chew, jump the gun, fly off the handle and then die on that hill
How to be an emotionally safe person: Be curious. Encourage honesty and hard conversations instead of avoiding. Validate. Make others feel heard. Be nonjudgmental. Give space to be imperfect. Be consistent and dependable. Own when your actions caused hurt. Support without fixing.
kissing is great
but wow when you get to kiss someone you have feelings for and you've wanted to kiss them for the longest time and you get to stroke their face and you're so aware of their body and how nice their lips feel
whoever said “you MUST BY ALL MEANS develop a strong opinion of yourself so you don't end up internalizing the beliefs others have of you” changed my life.
It’s really surprising that people are shocked that Gen Z don't enjoy work. Back in the day, work was to let you buy a home, travel and set up a few nice things for yourself. Would you feel the same way about work if it lead to none of the above ??