@Iwa_lewa1@TheOnlyKemi Exactly!
I was about to say something like this.
You serve who you love.
Imagining giving birth to his child. He will most likely not help with carrying child or even the house chores when you're busy caring for the child.
A man in love will help, maybe he isn't.
My friend had a day off.
Her new neighbour knocked. She welcomed her in, then hurried to the kitchen to grab some juice.
She heard the faint sound of a door opening while reaching for two glass cups but didn't think much of it.
When she returned to the sitting room with a tray in her hand the neighbour was gone.
She followed a faint sound coming from down the hall. And pushed the bedroom door open.
Her neighbour was standing right there.
She was furious. The neighbour quickly explained that she was an interior designer and wanted to assess the room's structure. She'd already assessed the living room while her host was in the kitchen.
How logical does that sound?
Why would you walk into the bedroom of someone you barely know?
That's intrusion.
And just like that neighbour, you do the same thing when someone gives you their email address. Instead of building a relationship first, you go straight for the money.
You start screaming in their ears, "Buy now" And that's so annoying.
This is why you need a nurture sequence before the sales sequence.
Stop going around asking for their wallet when they've barely greeted you. That only makes you a beggar and a beggar gets ignored.