I love seeing people who haven’t had the best relationships finally find their person. It’s like watching someone who’s been carrying around a heavy weight for years finally put it down.
It’s ok to be alone, it’s ok to have a dry phone, it’s ok to be celibate, it’s ok to do alittle soul searching, it’s ok to have high standards, it’s ok to be selfish, it’s ok to put you first.
If you have drive, ambition, goals, hustle, discipline and dreams, everyone “ending up in the same place” sounds like hell on earth. Shove your equity up your ass. Equity is earned. All that’s owed is equal opportunity.
I’ve realized a lot of men really don’t like women being women anymore. You can’t complain, can’t be a lil dramatic sometimes, can’t be sensitive, etc…. It’s almost like they want to be in a relationship with a man.