The best advice I heard from a stranger was this: give luck more opportunities to bump into you. Leave the house, take a different road, travel, say yes to new experiences. The more you do, the more life surprises you in the best ways.
if you want to be a loser and eventually hate others and yourself, you should sit at home all day on your phone, watch other peoples lives, gossip about them & don’t put any energy into learning a new thing or skill, to distract yourself from the boredom