Nabulya Hudalifa

for the kingdom of God

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

ADVICE FOR WOMEN IN THE DATING WORLD:

You will never convince a man to love you.

Choose a man who answers when you call and texts back in ample time rather than days.

Choose a man that gives you clear cut answers and doesn’t leave you wondering where you stand.

Brief read...

[Nalongo Laloyo ‘The Unknown Poet’ 🇺🇬 @MulungiKhloe]

I don't know what it takes to be Miss Uganda, but this girl truly embodies the beauty of an African queen; she reminds me of Nantubwe Ella, who still looks like a miss even after all these years! This woman, in my opinion, deserved to receive the title!

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

SOME LESSONS ON FINANCES: 🚢 ⚓️

1. Must have EMERGENCY FUND - enough for 6 months of expenses/current lifestyle.

2. SAVE MONEY and MONEY WILL SAVE YOU. Don’t save what is left after spending. Only spend what is left after saving.

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

WHAT EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO KNOW.

1. Your biggest enemy is yourself. That enemy is the one who makes you overthink, develop a low self-esteem, make you emotionally unstable and give you ulcers. Love yourself from the inside first before you expect love from the outside

[Lisa Matomola @mieyolisa]

My first manager taught me that, no matter how much you know a subject,prepare again and again.

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

THE 12 RULES THAT WILL BETTER YOUR MARRIAGE
How can two walk together unless they agree? The truth is, that many marriages get ruined because of misunderstandings. Misunderstandings are brought about by a lack of agreement on how to handle the issues that affect each marriage. Failing to agree will lead to the husband and wife interpreting things differently leading to feelings of hurt, insensitivity, rejection, intolerance and indifference.

Agree with your spouse on the do's and don'ts. Have these rules.

1. SEX RULES
Agree that you can have sex in whichever way and position, but also agree on what you will not try out. For example; no anal sex, no masturbation when you have each other, no pornography use, no inflicting pain or no making love when she is on monthly periods and if he is horny then, how will she pleasure him? Each couple is different. Agree on what are the limits

2. PHONE RULES
Agree on how to handle the phone. For example, no chatting with others past 11pm for that is an intimate time, no secrecy, no need to walk away when someone calls, inform your spouse about who has called

3. MONEY RULES
Agree on how to use money. Will you have a joint bank account? What percentage can each use without the requirement of notifying the other? Who pays for what bills? Saving. Investing. No giving money to in-laws without joint consent

4. COMING HOME RULES
What should you do in case you're coming home late? Make a phone call? How late is too late to come home? Your spouse doesn't mind you coming home late as long as it is agreed. Marriage is not about selfish you but you two as partners

5. SOCIAL RULES
Agree you will make an effort to introduce each other to your friends. Agree on how close friends of the opposite gender can get. Agree on which friends to keep. Agree on how often friends can visit. Your home shouldn't be invaded by friends. There needs to be boundaries

6. INFORMATION RULES
Agree to notify each other where you are, even if with just a simple text. Agree on the need to tell each other your individual schedule for the day. Keep your spouse in the know

7. TEMPER RULES
Agree on what to do when you both get mad at each other. Do you give yourself space? Withdraw for some minutes? Do you deal with the issue quickly? No going to sleep mad at each other. Conflict resolution

8. CHORE RULES
Agree on who does what in the house. This will prevent any of you from feeling like they are doing too much

9. SOCIAL MEDIA RULES
Agree on the dos and don'ts of social media. For example, no being Facebook friends with your ex, no commenting suggestively on other people's posts, no indecent behaviour, no airing domestic issues on social media

10. WORK RULES
Agree on limits of work. For example, no coming home with work, what to do when your careers conflict? What to do when you have different working hours? When to take leave or off days?

11. PARENTHOOD RULES
Agree on how to discipline the children, who does what, who goes for Parents' days in school, do you take turns? What kind of food will the children eat?

12. INDIVIDUAL SPACE RULES
Agree that sometimes each of you will want some alone time, to work or to meditate or just relax. Agree on how to notify your spouse when you want a few minutes to yourself. Your spouse will give you room if you need it

Agreeing on these key issues brings about order, peace and unity; both of you will know how to navigate and behave.

If your marriage is chaotic because of lack of order. It's not too late to have a conversation leading to an agreement on these issues.

Make your marriage simple

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

Hey babe, when you are angry...

1. Be mad at me, but don't insult me... Anger is not a ticket to speak carelessly.

2. Be mad at me, but tell me why you are mad... Don't assume I know.

3. Be mad at me, but don't broadcast it to others... Cover me.

Read if you're single...

[Dan Go @CoachDanGo]

I'm 44.

If you're still in your 20's, read this:

[REMA @REMAUG1]

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[Nabulya Hudalifa @quinhuda]

@au_badela Amen

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

Many people in relationships and marriages are fighting symptoms and so they end up feeling frustrated when their relationship/marriage still suffers. The following are a few symptoms and how to address their root cause...✍🏾

It’s a long thread 🧵 fam

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF IN 2024

1. Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

2. Stop begging.

3. Stop saying more than is necessary.

4. When people disrespect you, confront them immediately (don't keep it for later).

5. Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

6. Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

7. Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

8. Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

9. Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

10. Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

11. Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.

12. Respect your time.

13. Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

14. Learn to spend money on yourself, that's how people learn to spend on you.

15. Be scarce sometimes.

16. Be a giver more than a receiver.

17. Don't go where you're not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

18. Treat people exactly the way they deserve.

19. Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

20. Be good at what you do. Be the best.

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

RULES FOR GIRLS IN RELATIONSHIP

Please try and share this content and educate someone thanks beloved

1. Don't take off YOUR PANTIES because he called You Beautiful. Take Them off because He MARRIED YOU.

2. Don't Open Your LEGS because he said You will Make A GOOD MOTHER. Open them because he's Ready to be A GOOD FATHER AFTER Your Wedding.

3. Don't Take Him HOME because he Gave You A Ride or Bought You Ice CREAM and fried rice. Take him home because he treated you like a queen and he is Committed to be the Love of YOUR LIFE.

4. Don't PUSH Him away because He has No MONEY TODAY. Hold Him Close if He is A Man of Vision. To another Woman, He is HONEY and He's Got BRIGHTER Days ahead with A PROSPECTIVE BLOSSOMING FUTURE.

5. Don't Go Punishing Him because ANOTHER MAN Hurt You. All Men are not the Same. A Man who FEARS God doesn't Hurt People. If He Loves You, Give Him a Chance and He may be the best thing that ever Happened to you.

6. Don't Stay up All Night Praying and Wondering Where to Find a Good Man. Work on YOUR CHARACTER, be an ASSET and not A LIABILITY and above all serve God FAITHFULLY.

[Fact @Fact]

Getting married at age 25 or older significantly decreases risk of divorce by over 60% .

[Dr. God Abeg ooo @josh_uglyasf]

Two major reasons modern relationships fail.

Walk with me…

Choice-

People undermine the power of choice when it comes to relationships. We are mostly consumed by the enthralling attraction that we get at first, that we tend to forget the enormity of the decision we’d make.

[veena 🖤 @xxivorys]

i saw a post today that said, "when you finally learn your place in people's lives, your feelings won't get hurt" and i swear that's the truth and one of the most important life lesson you will learn. whether it's family, friends, or whoever

[Fact @Fact]

If you get a gut feeling that something isn’t right about a person or situation, trust it.

[Fact @Fact]

Nobody wants to hear this, but sometimes the person you want most, is the person you're best without.

[Fact @Fact]

Try and wait 24 hours before getting mad and reacting. If it doesn't bother you by then, it probably wasn't important enough to get mad over.