you can go from having 4k in your OPay to 30million naira
and within a week, it would seem as though you have always had the 30m.
the way human mind adapts to change in circumstances is very intriguing
Underrated life advice: Just be easy to work with. Show up on time. Do what you said you'd do. Bring solutions, not problems. Never create drama. Be responsive. Be emotionally consistent. Be kind. People will always want to support someone who just makes their life easier.
Some days require profound reflection and personal development. Other days require good food, an excellent outfit and absolutely no lessons whatsoever.
"The hardest truth is that your greatest work may be seen by no one, and yet you must do it anyway for the one who watches is you."
β Friedrich Nietzsche
Social capital is very powerful. People trust you when they feel you are used to money and won't be overwhelmed by certain figures. More people want to relate with you.
It is also part of the reason people move to Ikoyi and VI. If people see you can afford a house or rent there, they trust you more. Lagos is classist.
The game is the game.