going through a life transition is so stressful and meaningful because you get to experience your soul remodeling itself in real time. like going back to clay, getting thrown on the wheel, and spinning out into a more finely wrought form.
and learning from all these cumulative transitions is probably the only way you get to know the enduring nature of the soul and its substance, about the clay and the potter, about life and about god
Having girlfriend is crucial because every 14 months a man is hit with the uncontrollable urge to shave off all his hair and start wearing huge jeans and wife beaters. man needs woman to tell him that that’s insane
people need two therapists: a woman that is gentle, kind and understanding, and a man who tells it like it is and holds you to a high standard. also these two therapists ideally should be married and have had sex roughly nine months before your birth