Just because a ship is toxic or will never be canon doesn't mean you can't ship it and it doesnt mean the writers hate you what is wrong with you people
A story is true. A story is untrue. As time extends, it matters less and less. The stories we want to believe… those are the ones that survive, despite upheaval and transition and progress. Those are the stories that shape history.
I have a ttrpg character for a supernatural revolutionary war ttrpg (flames of freedom) my friends and I do and it started as a joke that my name was Jenny 12 Guns because I wanted to be combat oriented and a pirate. Lo and behold:
We are blessed in bstwt I cannot scroll thru without one of you fuckers discussing clock metaphors and ending discourse and a story is true a story is untrue (and also Vanes big dick)
If you were told no to something at a con by a handler... maybe don't then ask the actor? Like. I'm sorry to break this to you but celebrities unfortunately *have* to be nice to you in these situations. You are giving them money.