sometimes even an apology canโt fix what happened because the real issue isnโt the mistake, itโs the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you canโt apologize for character.
a hardest pill to swallow is that people will hurt you. dehumanize you in so many ways and not feel badly about it. they wonโt feel a thing actually. theyโll move on with their day, their week, their life, happy as ever but there you are, crushed. loss of appetite. loss of sleep.
dating someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you, and loves you a little extra on your bad days >>>
detachment is necessary because when you keep giving the same person chance after chance with your heart it teaches them to feel comfortable with giving you less than you deserve.