Ram Srini

Things worth doing will take a lifetime! RT and likes are not endorsements! OM shanthi!

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@alex_verem @Anuraag_Shukla Incredible insights!

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@trramesh @AbhinavPSarathy Thanks for sharing the great news @trramesh. Great efforts from your side fighting for our dharma🙏

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@arvindi @ShreeHistory Great historical insights from Sriram.

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@uaustinorg Excellent advice. Simple yet profound.

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@JethmalaniM @rvaidya2000 Insightful

[Dr Danish @operationdanish]

We now have evidence that gentle parenting doesn’t work.

Here’s an uncomfortable truth about parenting no one wants to say out loud:

The data is not kind to gentle parenting.

According to teenagers, strict curfews. strict bedtimes, screen limits, device drop off times, dedicated homework blocks, and sleepover restrictions IMPROVE higher relationship quality.

And yes, parenting difficulty goes up.

Of course it does. Leadership is harder than appeasement.

For the past decade we have been sold a watered down, Instagram friendly version of “gentle parenting” that often collapses into boundary avoidance, endless negotiation and emotional processing without enforcement. Parents terrified of saying no because they do not want to rupture connection.

But connection without authority is not connection. It is dependency.

When parents impose structure, the relationship improves.

Teenagers report better parent child relationship quality in homes with curfews and rules. Younger kids report better relationships in homes with screen limits and bedtimes. Even device drop off times correlate positively.

Why?

Because structure is not cruelty. Structure is love made visible.

A bedtime says: your brain matters more than your entertainment.

A screen limit says: your dopamine system is not fully developed and I will guard it until it is.

A curfew says: your safety matters more than your social standing.

That is not authoritarianism. That is caring.

Boundaries create friction. Friction creates growth. The parent absorbs the short term discomfort so the child does not pay the long term cost.

Children do not experience well calibrated limits as rejection. They experience them as stability. The human brain craves predictability. Predictability reduces anxiety. Reduced anxiety strengthens attachment.

That is why relationship quality goes up.

Notice something else in the data. The strongest effects are around time structure. Bedtime. Homework. Devices. Outside play. These are environmental constraints. They scaffold executive function.

The winning formula is not tyranny.

It is high warmth plus high structure.

The modern failure mode is high warmth plus low structure. That is just abdication of responsibility wrapped in empathy.

Children need leadership, not negotiation. They need adults who can tolerate their anger. They need boundaries that do not move every time emotions spike. They need someone whose prefrontal cortex is fully myelinated.

The harder path produces the stronger bond.

Because when a child feels that someone is strong enough to hold the line, they relax. And relaxed nervous systems build durable relationships.

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@CNNnews18 @sgurumurthy @AnchorAnandN Great Insights!

[HinduPACT @HinduPACT]

#HappeningNow #StopBangladeshiGenocide rally in WashingtonDC - Please retweet and support. #SaveBangladehiHindus

HinduPACT supporting statement:

The drip-drip genocide of Hindus in Bangladesh has remained unrecognized for far too long. Following the regime change in Bangladesh, aided by state mechanisms, Islamists have gained increased confidence. Hindus face killings, temple vandalism, and imprisonments, such as that of Hindu priest Chinmoy Krishna Das. Many Hindus are compelled to leave their jobs.

A testament to the determination of selfless grassroots organizers has led to the rally in Washington, DC, today; HinduPACT stands proudly behind their efforts.

We hope that the rally on Human Rights Day raises awareness of their plight and compels the Yunus-Islamist regime to acknowledge and respect its minority communities.

[Incognito @Incognito_qfs]

A white guy said "Hinduism is a wicked, pagan religion..." to Vivek Ramaswamy.

No one in India has ever said "Your religion is wicked..." to Christian Sonia Gandhi or Muslim Owaisi to their face.

Yet, India is communal & US is secular.

[Tamil Nadu Geography @TNGeography]

Many wondered, why i am posting against CITU and Communist. My interest in Geography started when I was reading about the Coolie system, migration of Tamil labour across the world, and their struggle. It is a fearful, bloodiest and forgotten episode in Tamil history. 🧵 1/n

[Joseph T Noony @JoeAgneya]

Too lazy to read 4000 years of Indian philosophy? I've got you covered!

Doesn't get easier than this

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@TNGeography Informative Post. Please post a thread on the Kannan Devan and Ganapathy Mills Stories. People need to know.

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@anbezhil12 அருமை!

[The Poll Lady @ThePollLady]

Yunus admits coup in Bangladesh.

🇧🇩 Chief advisor of Bangladesh Muhammad Yunus claimed that the widespread riots in Bangladesh did not come about 'just suddenly'; it was 'meticulously' designed and did not happen by chance.

💬 He introduced Bangladesh student leader Mahfuj Abdullah as the mastermind behind the riots that led to Sheikh Hasina’s ouster, during his speech at Clinton Hall.

👉 Holding former US President Bill Clinton's hand, Yunus stated that Abdullah stands behind the entire 'revolution'.

[G KailashVenkatraman @GKailashVenki07]

Hi , this is an incident which I had faced recently . I am currently at Texas A&M doing my Masters . We people along with the Hindu Yuva group organize , participate , help students get to know regarding their culture and about our festivals etc. This Sunday on the occasion 1/n

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@Ofer_binshtok Very informative and detailed article on impact of Muslim invasion. Lot of lessons to be learnt for the current times.Thanks.

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@TansuYegen Well done!

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@JKalyanaraman @ProfessorBJP டுபாக்கூர்!

[Ram Srini @RamSrini3]

@OhioStatehouse Thanks for the great efforts in bringing cultural diversity and understanding to our state and city. Wonderful effort!

[Ohio Statehouse @OhioStatehouse]

In the Ohio Statehouse Rotunda, see an exhibit about Hindu history and culture, Feb. 21-23.