@gaylittlechuu But that's very unlikely to happen at random, especially since there's a layer of "I need to make sure this person understands I'm not allo" that kneecaps any spontaneity
@gaylittlechuu Everybody's different, but I don't think people are unattractive any more than I think they're attractive (unless you mean they're filthy/otherwise gross, which is repulsive rather than unattractive). So if I trust them, like them, want to, and there's nothing to repulse me? Sure
@ardy_public If someone doesn't desire you carnally they're not going to get distracted by your body at all during sex. You should be more scared that they're paying attention to you lol. Allos stop acting like they see us the moment the attraction takes over so this is weird to read for me
@LazieJamie@beebewriting They aren't the same label, a lot of newbie queers just think they are and have spread that around until the lines got blurred. It's common for asexuals to be sex repulsed, but I've met plenty of allosexuals who are sex repulsed.
@d00d1e_bug@beebewriting This is such a limited worldview that I assumed the change happened before 2010 when you could MAYBE argue it influenced the popular understanding of asexuality, but I looked it up and it happened in 2021??? Bro they were late to the game, it was already common knowledge ๐ญ
@NutterButter195@chocomwilkies@beebewriting You gotta get a better relationship with food bro. I don't eat ice cream because I'm hungry, I eat it because it's a hot summer day and it's a pleasant way to cool off, yk?
@d00d1e_bug@beebewriting I had to stop reading when you blamed AVEN. That's like blaming arrinfantasy for omegaverse ๐ญ That website hasn't been relevant since 2004
Btw, the actual numbers show that no, cutting off your parents isn't a "white people" thing
It *is* disproportionately a "queer people" thing, so when people talk about it being "white", let's all be aware of the subtext being pushed there
@QueenOfNuggys@DaddyWarpig Bones hands a woman a pill that grows her a new kidney in Whales Movie (The Voyage Home) despite this being a potentially major alteration of the past. They literally wouldn't even understand that it was considered hard in this era.
@oops_all_nutt@godspeed_aflame The first passage is on page 5 of my physical book! I'll just read the first 3 chapters if I feel like I'm getting too bogged down by good practices. He also abuses the hell out of adverbs, but it works. Breaking the rules with internet ๐ฅ
@oops_all_nutt@godspeed_aflame Your mileage may vary but I thought of the first one immediately. The second I just scrolled around a little and found. He uses telling as a tool the same as showing.
@MechaGoddess On the one hand, I do understand this. On the other, sometimes I want to put a show that I'm mandated to watch as an anime fan on as background noise instead of being assaulted by it in all 5 senses (e.g many recent Jump Shounen)
@bloodyshrike My theory has always been that it happened due to increasing isolation of children away from society until they turn 18 by locking them in various boxes according to age (e.g. schools that operate like prisons).