@constecolle It felt to me as if it wanted to be "chased" and fixing the issues would remove reasons for it to run away and then be chases. This is pure conjecture from me though, but it really felt as if it loved having people dote on it. I don't know...
@constecolle I am sorry you had to deal with that. It is mentally exhausting to have to placate/reassure someone constantly, especially when it doesn't listen and denies any attempt at help or improvement. Mostly, the refusal to try to fix things annoyed me a lot - caused overreliance on you
@constecolle It was mostly the constant running away from you and demanding attention at the same time - the whole "i should leave because everyone would be better off without me", which forces you to immediately respond and pay attention, no matter the time or how tired you are, etc..
@constecolle Who's getting upset?! I have words for them.. When you're in a relationship, you tend to minimise what your partner does, and it's only when you are no longer together that you realise that wow, it was bad. That's normal. Personally, I saw some pretty bad parts but said nothing..
@constecolle I don't think venting in private to your friends is a smear campaign at all. Especially to friends who knew Peachy. Letting your emotions out after a really stressful period helps a lot, so I wouldn't see this as negative at all...