Women won't call him a misogynist because it's coming from a pastor. Their favorite daddy.
At the end of the day, if you still have to be told this as a man in 2026, you're a fool. If you need to be reminded that you deserve love, you're a fool.
Since women have lived being the beneficial in relationships in the past, i told myself I will flip the script.
A woman must spend on me before I spend on her. She must gift me first before I gift her. If you don't invest in me, I won't invest in you.
I deserve love and to be spoilt with gifts as well. The more reason I will never be in a one-sided relationship.
Settle for anything less at your own peril.
Make sure you only marry the one who has empathy.
Without it, you're stuck with someone who won't care when you're hurting, won't notice when you're drained, and won't bother to step in when life gets heavy.
Empathy is not optional, it's the baseline for respect and connection.
Looks fade, money shifts, ambition burns out, but empathy is the thing that keeps two people from turning into strangers under the same roof.
If they can't put themselves in your place, if they can't feel beyond their own bubble, you're signing up for a cold partnership. Choose empathy or don't choose at all.
She said it absolutely right.
Treat women how they ought to be treated and not how they wish to be treated.
Nicest men get treated the absolute worst.
Please listen 👇
“You Went To School, I Went To School. You Graduated, I Graduated. You’re Working, I’m Working. 7 Years After Graduation… You’re Meeting Me And You Want Me To Marry You, And You’re Asking Me If I Have a Car Or a House. So Tell Me… Why Don’t You Have a Car Or a House? We’ve Both Been Earning Salaries For The Past 7 Years. What Did You Do With Your Own Money? Make it, Make Sense.”
Women have cheated on billionaires.
Women have cheated on celebrities.
Women have cheated on men with everything - looks, money, status.
If you think you are an exception, then you are a fool..
You're going too far...
She could still cheat because you 'provide too much'
Too much love
Too much validation
Too much availability
Too much predictability
And what qualifies as 'too much' has no objective standard. It is entirely dependent on her feelings
When a married woman cheats and your girlfriend starts justifying it, don’t lie to yourself, bro. You saw the signs, ignore it now and you'll pay for it heavy in future.
No matter how much you spend and sacrifice for a woman, all that would be forgotten by 11:59pm. The following day she will tell you you've done nothing for her.
Young boys grow up hearing:
"protect women.”
"respect women.”
"provide for women."
"never hurt women."
Meanwhile nobody teaches:
how women should treat men.
Cold reality
If a man flirts with you knowing you have a boyfriend, he’s not thinking you’re an amazing woman.
He’s thinking you’re willing to entertain attention outside your relationship.
The moment he knows you’re taken and still shoots his shot, he’s not admiring your loyalty. He’s betting against it.
This is what it means to speak the truth and stand as God’s witness against evil in the land.
This is what it means to use one’s platform for good, and not to cuddle evil animals in power or ordain their evil wives as pastor.
May God bless this woman.