I think there a part of me i lost. Somewhere I lost that bold, assertive, and boundary setting me. Where I would valued me! The part of me that would never allow me to accept less. The one that that would never allow individuals to give me the bear basic and let that stand.
People cheat because they're cheaters... Not because you can't cook, or you didn't give enough sex, or you got into an argument... There's nothing someone can do differently to not get cheated on except find someone who isn't interested in cheating.