You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.
You're able to say to yourself, " I have lived through this horror, I can take the next big thing that comes along."
#Resilience
Men,
Stay away from another man's baby mama,
Her anger towards her baby daddy is cosmetic,
A woman doesn't forget the man who made her pregnant. - They will still have sex at some point.
Her baby daddy is always her alpha man while you are her beta.
#MasculinitySaturday
I have seen people telling you,
"Go to court and seek full custody."
Don't attempt that nonsense.
Your money, sobriety and soul will be drained, and you will be left depressed.
Avoid custodial drama. It traumatizes children, even when they become adults.
Your baby mama is spoiling for a fight.
She knows you are emotionally attached to the child, which is why she is weaponizing this attachment against you.
You are also on WhatsApp begging her and sounding so desperate, and this is her weapon against you.
If truly the child is yours,
Do this:
• Open a bank account and deposit money there monthly.
• Send her the ATM card and put a monthly limit on withdrawals.
• Pay fees directly to the school.
• If the child wants shoes, uniform and textbooks, pay directly to the shops.
• Cut communications completely. Don't text. Don't call.
• Approach more women. This is your buffer against oneitis.
• Connect with your Anima (SOPHIA).
In 3 months of silence, she will begin looking for you. She might be dramatic at first, but don't let her chaos distract you.
Remain silent and firm.
She will submit and begin texting you:
"Selfish man, don't you want to talk to the child?"
"Why do you hate us?"
"I regret knowing you."
"Your child is missing you."
"Your child has performed well this time."
"Your child has grown big and healthy."
"The teacher wants to talk to you together with your child."
It is here that you declare your boundaries:
• Demand for a DNA.
If the child is not yours, she will disappear forever, knowing that you have ended the exploitation.
If the child is yours, demand unlimited access.
Women with bad manners should be put in their place. DUSTBIN.
Stand firm like a mountain in a storm.
A big win for our coffee farmers. New KPCU has surpassed KES 15 billion in CCARF disbursements, benefiting 683,980 farmers nationwide.
Kwa Kweli, Kahawa Ni Dollar!
I extend my heartfelt congratulations to Mr. David Sandagi on his appointment as the substantive Chief Executive Officer of the Sacco Societies Regulatory Authority (SASRA), effective June 2026. This appointment reflects the confidence placed in his leadership, expertise, and commitment to advancing the cooperative and financial inclusion agenda. As he assumes this important responsibility, I wish him every success in steering the Authority's transformation agenda, strengthening the SACCO sector, and fostering a resilient, innovative, and member-centric cooperative movement for the benefit of all Kenyans.
You are letting a broke woman call you broke. Meanwhile, she has nothing to offer but demands.
She is not pushing you to be better, she is just pushing you to spend more. You do not need her.
@jas_d_barbie Man on fire
The waterfront
The runaway
Homeland
His and Hers
The RIP
Stay close
Parish
Tidelands
The cleaning lady
Nemesis
I will find you
I got promoted after just one year as a Data Analyst.
This promotion comes with a 5fig salary bump and entry into junior management.
Technical skills got me hired but these 7 lessons got me promoted.
A thread for every junior analyst who wants to accelerate their career 🧵
8 trucos que te darán una resistencia increíble. (Los médicos no te los contarán)
1. Bebidas energéticas antes del sexo (tomar 35 minutos antes del sexo).
Apply for as many jobs as you can. Target roles that are above your qualification. Go to the interviews that scare you. You will gain so much confidence from that experiece that you'll naturally become a better candidate. This is one of the things that job hunting taught me.
Weird Facts About The Vagina That Are Completely Normal
1. When a woman is aroused, her Vagina can expand up to 200% to accommodate the Penis.
2. During orgasm, the Vagina changes shape. The walls contract, cervix lifts & the uterus tilts
3. Lots of Sex doesn't make the V loose. Multiple childbirth or menopause might.
4. Vaginas come in all sizes, just like Penises.
What feels perfect to Mr A may feel "loose" to B.
5. Semen & bacteria from your partner can upset your balance, leading to infections.
6. Your pH shifts after Sex, your period, or antibiotics. That's why a mild scent change isn't always infection.
7. The Vagina has a mild & musky scent; it is not supposed to smell like Roses
Your technical skills are not enough, by the way.
You can know SQL, Python, Power BI, Spark, and still struggle to get opportunities.
Why?
Because technical skills alone don’t create opportunities. People need to know:
What you can do
The problems you can solve
The value you bring
You must learn how to pitch and sell your technical skills.
That means:
• Writing a good CV
• Building a portfolio
• Networking
• Sharing your work publicly
• Speaking confidently about your projects and impact
Selling yourself is not arrogance. It’s communication.
The tech industry is full of brilliant people who remain unseen because they never learned this skill.
So, while you’re learning the technical side, also learn how to market yourself.
That’s a skill too.