Whoever sold the gospel of marriage to Nigerai women did them a great disservice. And the person is long gone, otherwise, an apology would have been necessary, to please come and take his/her gospel back.
Sometimes, when you hear the unspeakable things some women endure just to remain married, and your sanity instantly rebel against it. You find yourself wondering how staying married became more important than dignity, safety, peace, and selfhood. The things some women tolerate in the name of “keeping a home” are beyond comprehension.
There are moments I am genuinely grateful I am not a woman, because I cannot imagine subjecting myself to such humiliation, pain, and emotional violence just to keep any man. No relationship should demand the erasure of one’s humanity as proof of commitment.
This will not be a long thread 🧵
So you can read if you have the time.
Smart girls understand that sacrifice today builds freedom tomorrow. Skipping short-term indulgences, saving consistently & making disciplined choices in your 20s and 30s is how you secure peace and luxury in your 40s, 50s, and beyond. A soft life later requires a strategic, sometimes uncomfortable life now. Don’t be afraid to miss out. What you’re really doing is setting yourself up to never struggle again.
If you receive a message from a family member prompting you to send money to a certain Mathias Yaduma, it’s a scam and their WhatsApp have been compromised by this person.