You’re supposed to use every unfair advantage you have. Connections, looks; money, all of it.
You're not noble by picking the hardest path just to look like an underdog.
Marriage will humble you because eventually your spouse will see you fail.
They will see you when you're broke, sick, stressed, insecure, unemployed, overweight, depressed about life or completely unsure about what to do next.
The question is not whether your spouse will ever see you at your lowest.
They will.
The real question is what kind of person they become when you are no longer impressive.
Anybody can love you when life is easy character is revealed when life becomes ugly.
Some things that are a flex in your 20s won’t carry the same weight in your 30s or 40s.
Just like high-school fame becomes irrelevant in your early 20s, partying, expensive alcohol, sleeping with hundreds of women, and street credibility eventually lose their appeal.
As you mature, different things become expected of you.
Having a job, your own place, and being able to afford your basic needs may feel like achievements in your 20s, but by your 40s, they’re simply things that are expected of you as an adult,not things that deserve applause.
Madam, what you are describing is prostitution with better public relations. The only difference is that you have replaced an hourly rate with a lifestyle requirement and called the arrangement “dating”.
And then, with astonishing confidence, you declare that only poor men will be triggered.
No. A man does not have to be unable to afford something to recognise that it has been priced.
If his bank balance determines whether he deserves access to you, why should he not ask what you bring that another woman cannot?
Beauty? There is always someone more beautiful.
Youth? Time is undefeated.
Sex? Desire alone has never sustained a civilisation, much less a marriage.
Status? Fortunes and reputations change.
The things that make a woman difficult to replace are rarely the things money can buy: character, wisdom, loyalty, peace, discernment, the ability to build with a man when the seasons change.
The poor man you ridicule may one day acquire money. But if money is the only language through which you recognise the worth of a man, no amount of money will cure your own poverty.
Akuume.
*EMIRIMU GY’EKIKA MU LUBIRI LWA KABAKA:-*
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@MyronGainesX I respect you a lot boss. I watch your show & clips, incredibly changed my view of r'ships.
What's that one advice that has kept you doing what you do on a daily?
@realkalule Men who were afraid of women, ignored by women or rejected by women when they were broke, have this unnecessary pressure to prove a point once they get money. It's sad