women who constantly say shit like “i need a girlfriend so bad” or “i wanna kiss a girl rn” while having a whole ass boyfriend are genuinely some of the most insufferable people ever dude
apparently its terf propaganda to say lesbians arent attracted to men and dont willingly have sex with them knowing they're lesbians. im sorry if my tweet offended u in any way but when i log on this app n tiktok and see rape rhetoric against lesbians at thousands of likes and
people will force themselves to ID as lesbian and then fight for their right to express attraction towards or even sleep with men then call lesbians strict and mean for not validating them only to come out as bisexual 2 years later and pretend WE forced them to ID as lesbian 😭
@tinglespoon Ive absolutely done the same and still go by lesbian. Sometimes you just need it tonight and get something very different from it compared to connecting to another woman.
i fully believe a person knows their sexuality better than anyone else but if you're labeling yourself as a lesbian but dating men, having sex with men, and talking about being attracted to men, you are actively harming the lesbian community.
theres a big difference between denial of being a lesbian or having comphet and considering yourself a lesbian while fucking men for fun or for pleasure.
Y’all will deadass get on this app and be like “I’m a lesbian and I love dick and sleeping with men and cock and balls!!!!” Then when people get rightfully mad you get all condescending and say they don’t understand “nuance” LMFAOOOO