it is disarming when someone is forward and direct with me, instead of moving in riddles. that's what i'm made for: a rush of thoughtless heat. a charge. pure intent .
A good life also includes: making mistakes, not knowing where to start, asking for help, changing your mind, resting without guilt, outgrowing friendships, not having the answers, saying no, crying, healing, rebuilding , doing it scared , throwing everything and starting over .
People have ostracized me, isolated me, and looked down on me my whole life and it’s never made them right and its never made them better than me either
It is possible to see people (and their ill intentions) for who they are without taking their actions personally. Unlocking this mindset changed my life forever.
it’s difficult now, but soon you’re going to look back at your trials and see the distance you’ve transversed. everything you’ve worked through will be behind you, polished by your triumph, glistening in the sun. continue pushing to get through it. you’re almost there, beloved .
i love speaking with people who are more intelligent in a certain field than i am. it’s just great to sit back and listen to somebody educate you on things they’re passionate about.
A significant amount of relational conflict is not about what happened itself. It is about the fact that people are living in different realities and what is happening is not being named.