@virtuousii ‘Healthy breakup’ is the reason men believe in their ultimate ‘Okafor’s rule’ 😤
Not me tho, unhealthy breakups please (not toxic or dramatic, just a clean exit) I don’t care if you become the president tomorrow. It’s never to cross paths again and the universe agrees always✨
The literacy crisis isn’t that people can’t read the words. It’s that they can’t understand the context, infer meaning, recognise nuance, identify contradictions, or draw logical conclusions from what they’ve read.
@WildChefHuman I came to the realization of this few days ago, i always complain that our last born wastes the soap when doing the dishes (too much woing) until i mistakenly poured more than needed and the experience was so good, i had to agree with her methods 😭😂
I can tell you this for free.
There are some situations where people can explain why a murder happened but there is none for rape.
“We were fighting and I pushed him and he fell and hit his head on a slab and died”
“He attacked my wife and I punched him and he died”
“He stole my life’s savings, I tracked him down and took his life”
So many murderers in prison have different excuses for why they committed murder. Could be revenge, could be a crime of passion, could even be an accident, could be self defense.
This is why nuance and context is considered during trials to determine whether a person is truly guilty and even the length of sentence the judge gives.
What you’ll never hear in your life is an excuse for rape.
“I was sexually frustrated and I would have died if I didn’t do it with her”
“I never nack for 3 months and my blood pressure was rising. She was the only one available”
“My penis has been erect for one week. I had to find a solution”
You see how foolish those things sound? That’s why you’ll never hear them because none of them are even near valid excuses.
There is 100% no justification for rape.
It is one of those crimes where the victim becomes a victim for life.
Some of us have had our pockets picked before and our phones and wallets stolen. We grieved over it, e pain us but eventually, we bought new and even better phones and moved on.
No one whose blackberry bold 3 was stolen 19 years ago still reflects about it and grieves over it. The person is no longer a victim.
But with rape, the victim is a victim forever. It is a lifetime of trauma.
IF A WOMAN SAYS NO, SHE MEANS IT. Leave her alone.
@IamJenjoe@wonboss123@UnkleAyo You can’t keep pouring water in a basket, it won’t hold, if you explain the point from now till tomorrow to it, it will intentionally be obtuse💔 Don’t waste your breath anymore👌🏾
@IamJenjoe@wonboss123@UnkleAyo I stopped responding to it because its obviously a ra pe apologist, it has definitely raped a lady and paid its way out, explains why it can say that’s a good idea. If the animal had not ra ped the girl, she won’t have to bleed talking less of needing the measly 50k for meds!
@ChuksEricE There’s absolutely no remorse on his face but I know things that are supposed to be there, a bleeding gash, fingerprints of angry family members and officers and I am livid that they aren’t. He is apologizing because he was caught and to avoid jail time not because he’s sorry!💔
@wonboss123@UnkleAyo Oh a better option, if he had not ra ped her at all!💔 Let’s not act like the supposed ‘50k’ isn’t for ‘damage control’, I wonder why you are so fixated on this ‘50k’, is that the price of virginity to you or you’ve never had that amount?
@JojoSereijo@cryptic_stunna It is. If she had told him she was pregnant, he’d have thought she wanted to trap him with it just the same way he asked if she didn’t tell him as a test so he could fall for her again. Tsk.