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the habituation effect (or hedonic adaptation) is such an interesting but at the same time annoying mental mechanism: even things you really enjoy can quickly start to get boring just because someone around talks about it way too much and seems completely obsessed with it
I respect you so much for waking up this conversation. A lot of friendships are hostile and competitive because there is this need for a friend with a little bit more experience to look down and consistently lecture their other friend just for existing and experiencing life in-
I thought of a new hypothetical to ask your partner: if I was an invasive species would you kill me for the good of the ecosystem or would you love me so much that you’d allow me to ravage the earth
Emily Dickinson never published in her lifetime, barely left her house, and wrote nearly 1,800 poems in secret. She was the original person who never posted but had an insane drafts folder. The greatest lurker in literary history.
It’s kinda hard to befriend someone who once I love dearly, I would need time and space where I can position myself better as a friend if I do so. I’d rather keep my space away from them even if we break up in good term.